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ThomasB.
May 20th, 2010, 05:16 PM
Basically I think i'm either gay, or bi. Its probaly about 50/50 on both the now, but i've always had a feeling, even before puberty, that i'd end up gay/bi, since I was about 10-11, i've known that I was different from the other guys.. so do you think I could be bi???? :what::what:

nick
May 20th, 2010, 05:23 PM
Well you could be, but you haven't really given us a lot to go on there. We would need to know more about how you feel emotionally and sexually about boys and girls. In anycase, you need to discover your sexuality for yourself, you cant really find it out from talking to complete strangers that you havent even met. Give yourself more time and eventually it will become clear.

ThomasB.
May 20th, 2010, 05:30 PM
Well you could be, but you haven't really given us a lot to go on there. We would need to know more about how you feel emotionally and sexually about boys and girls. In anycase, you need to discover your sexuality for yourself, you cant really find it out from talking to complete strangers that you havent even met. Give yourself more time and eventually it will become clear.

Well, thats the problem! I dunno! :whoops:

tbh i've never been in a proper relationship with anyone, but I think I feel kinda emotionally and physically to both genders at the mo - i'm not going to bother labeling myself, even though my parents are very accepting - but i'd rather wait till i'm sure. Just wanted some advice on ways to actually discover it.. rather than waste my time thinking about it.. :what:

Scarface
May 20th, 2010, 05:49 PM
Well this is something that you will come across as you get older, there is no rush to find out right away. whether you are gay/bi just be happy who you are. I'm gay and I knew for a long time too it just took me a little while to say I know what i am now and I'm proud of it. Just take you're tie and truly find yourself that way you can truly be happy

AlwaysConfused
May 20th, 2010, 07:47 PM
Well this is something that you will come across as you get older, there is no rush to find out right away. whether you are gay/bi just be happy who you are. I'm gay and I knew for a long time too it just took me a little while to say I know what i am now and I'm proud of it. Just take you're tie and truly find yourself that way you can truly be happy

i agree with Goose. we do need to figure it out on our own and try to reach our level of happiness while accepting ourselves.

PatrickZii
May 20th, 2010, 09:03 PM
Dude, no worries. Part of growing up is figuring out who you are. We can't do that for you; and we wouldn't anyway. It would take all the fun away :) Just go with the flow - if it feels good, do it. Don't worry about labeling yourself.

CuriousDestruction
May 21st, 2010, 03:58 AM
go where the wind takes you. don't worry about labels now. you have years for that. love who you want to love, date who you want to date, label yourself as an adult.

CantBeTamed
May 21st, 2010, 08:58 AM
you will figure it out i was just like you i mean i always new from a young age like 8 9 or 10 even i was different from the other boys i could just tell it just took time to figure out for sure what it was for sure

mustang
June 1st, 2010, 07:43 AM
jujing from your thred about k and the info you put in this thred i would say you are bi and there is nothing wrongue with that.

Jimmy Page
June 1st, 2010, 12:50 PM
dont worry about what you are yet.you can decide that later if you arent sure.

BlackBetty
June 1st, 2010, 09:21 PM
Labels are nothing. What matters is whats inside of you. If you are bi/gay, be your self.

You still have awhile before you desicde what you are, but whatever that may be, don't let anyone take you down.