Almost Over

[AlwaysConfused]

so this years almost ova!!! YESSSS OMG NO MORE SEEIN DA PPL DAT INFLUENCE ME!!!! but for real for a sec why do u guys think these attractions come to me so easily....is it becuz ive neva been in a relationship...is it becuz im too close to my friends or emotions........what is it i really dnt know. im extremely confused

[Scarface]

It could be all of those, but the one that I think really stands out is the emotions and hormones. You don't have to hurry and make up you're mind what you're preference is right now as you have plenty of time to decide what you are. The important thing though is that when you finally do find out who you are be proud. Don't let anyone tell you any different, just be yourself whether you're bi/gay/straight just have pride.

[AlwaysConfused]

It could be all of those, but the one that I think really stands out is the emotions and hormones. You don't have to hurry and make up you're mind what you're preference is right now as you have plenty of time to decide what you are. The important thing though is that when you finally do find out who you are be proud. Don't let anyone tell you any different, just be yourself whether you're bi/gay/straight just have pride.

i mean i guess i wnt hav any problem with being gay or bi or straight its just the things that come to me like dreams and thoughts and desires. i wouldnt let anybody tell me that im wrong or anything they cnt do it now. lol but when did u find out about urself?

[Haven]

It could be all of those, but the one that I think really stands out is the emotions and hormones. You don't have to hurry and make up you're mind what you're preference is right now as you have plenty of time to decide what you are. The important thing though is that when you finally do find out who you are be proud. Don't let anyone tell you any different, just be yourself whether you're bi/gay/straight just have pride.

I agree completely with this. The potential of it being your hormones is highly likely, and it could just be any other factor that you don't really know about. Other than that, I don't have anything to add other than what he said :D

[PatrickZii]

We are constantly bombarded with messages of "finding the one". It is perfectly normal to want to have that :)

[CuriousDestruction]

everyone's sexuality and sexual/romantic desires are different. you may attach to people emotionally quite easily while others can take decades. romance is complicated.