View Full Version : Jacking off normal
dcidrummer93
May 20th, 2010, 03:32 PM
when i jack off i sometimes think of jacking off with friends and then when i finish i feel like i dont want to talk to those people and it feels bad is this normal?
ThUnDeR
May 20th, 2010, 03:42 PM
Yes it is perfectly normal! the same thing happens to me. many guys feel "guilty" after they reach their climax.
Djlogout
May 22nd, 2010, 12:27 PM
normal for most males
tormag20
May 22nd, 2010, 05:49 PM
yes its normal i guess now that i read all these posts:yeah:
for me this was a problem. so to overcome it you have to have a different mental attitude. it is like playing a sport. most of the time you have to change your thinking to further better your playing. just think of it as something good. or post questions to websites like yahoo answers will teens your age and older can actually help you out with your thinking.
Kitty Purry
May 22nd, 2010, 10:01 PM
Yeah it's actually preety typical of guys to feel guilty/ashamed after they orgasm. So dot worry dude, your normal:-)
NYMetsFan92
May 22nd, 2010, 10:05 PM
Yeah, it's normal and that's exactly why you shouldn't feel guilty about it. Even if your not gay, thinking about other guys can be more of a turn on when your masturbating than thinking about girls because, after all, you are playing with your penis.
tohot4u
May 22nd, 2010, 11:28 PM
ya it is normal!
Footballkid27
May 22nd, 2010, 11:52 PM
that happens to me its just what happens after an orgasm
CuriousDestruction
May 23rd, 2010, 12:04 PM
yeah, unfortunately it's normal. people shouldn't have to feel guilty after they climax but they do, for reasons i won't go into. it's also normal to be curious about jacking off with friends but you do want to think before you try anything...
josh93
May 23rd, 2010, 12:06 PM
yeah its normal for that to occure it happens to me sometimes.
Harley Quinn
May 23rd, 2010, 12:19 PM
when i jack off i sometimes think of jacking off with friends and then when i finish i feel like i dont want to talk to those people and it feels bad is this normal?
Mhm, this is indeed normal, like everyone else has said. It's just sexual desires or fantasies you could say, there is nothing wrong with it but i wouldn't try anything with them as it's private and what not. Just don't make it obvious that you were infact jacking off to them..
YourFriend
May 23rd, 2010, 12:22 PM
Most people loose the interest when they ejaculate, don't worry.
brandon6123
May 24th, 2010, 02:03 AM
you should try masturbating with them
its great
chilldude
May 24th, 2010, 08:47 AM
its normal...just about every guy has thought that at least once
goldbiospark
June 6th, 2010, 10:30 PM
Guilt is probably envolved, regardless its probably for that short period of time.
kdddd
June 6th, 2010, 10:38 PM
this happens to me as well but no so much at this point but i used to always feel horribal
hrecknoall
July 6th, 2010, 01:10 AM
it is normal...idk why, but alot of guys feel guilty or sinful or bad or whatever after cumming...
RadioPlayer
July 6th, 2010, 01:12 AM
It happens to all guys, after having an orgasm, your not horny any more and sometimes feel ashamed. Dont worry about it, the other guy is probably feeling the same way.
BlizzKid
July 6th, 2010, 01:20 AM
Guilty is normal. Wanting to do it with your friend, normal. Climaxing with your friends = priceless!
DanielBoy
July 7th, 2010, 01:36 PM
Sorry, accidental double post.
DanielBoy
July 7th, 2010, 01:54 PM
The shame felt after an orgasm, whether you were masturbating or having sex, is caused by the sudden drop in the chemical dopamine in the brain; dopamine, the chemical that registers pleasure, floods the brain leading up to and during an orgasm. However, after the orgasm, the levels of dopamine suddenly drop back to normal, this sudden drop from a high, gives the feeling of a low, IE the shame. An orgasm is like a natural way of getting high, that has no negative health effects; as with every high, there is a low that follows. There really is no way to keep yourself from feeling this shame, just to work around it.
Hope this helps. :)
jameshotti12boy
July 7th, 2010, 04:21 PM
yeah its normal
Dog Desab
July 7th, 2010, 05:39 PM
ya its normal idk how to make the guilty feeling go away but it happens dont be ashamed.
zander
July 7th, 2010, 07:38 PM
yeah i think its normal, it does not always happen to me sometimes i am still horny but most of the times it happends
Jcat3
July 7th, 2010, 09:51 PM
It's very normal
fat cat
July 25th, 2010, 05:57 AM
totally normal
neigh
August 15th, 2010, 12:20 AM
u should not feel bad -- j/o is a normal thing to do.
like 99.999999999999999999876999554% of guys do it.
may be u want 2 talk to a old brother or friend -
don't get down on some thing that is normal --
take care
TheBlackRose321
January 16th, 2011, 04:38 PM
It all depends on what kind of friends that they are I asume.
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