Questions on not asking the wrong person.

[Melchi0r]

I used to want a girlfriend so badly that I asked girls who I should have seen were not good matches for me. For a while I didn't want a girlfriend, but now those feelings have come back. How can you tell who's the right kind of person to ask?

[Melchi0r]

Huh... I might have been able to think of that myself. *sheepish grin*

There's this one girl I have the hots for. She's really funny and great to talk to. I like being friends with her but I wanna be more than that. But she already has a boyfriend and if she didn't she might just wanna be my friend. :( However I was at a cast party with her (she and I were in the play) and when she left she pounced and gave me a big kiss on the cheek. *swoons* Yet it might have been a girl-to-guy-friend kiss, like the one Hermione gave to Harry at the end of the GoF book. (Hp nerd, deal with it). So.. I don't know.

[MoveAlong]

Mainly: find someone who you really like. Don't ask every girl that you meet. Talk to girls because you want to be their friends, and, if, you find a girl that you really like then go for it.

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^^That's pretty much it^^

If you know this girl is definatly going for you more than her boyfriend, then maybe you should make a move, to further the relationship. Just don't get the boyfriend mad. I'm not sure how to do this; you can just ask her to a movie sometime if she seems into you. Please tell more information, so we can help more :-)

[Melchi0r]

Make a move on her and not get her boyfriend mad? Hmm.. could I have some more examples of this?

A movie does sound good...

What other stuff do you need to know about her? Oh, her name, probably. She's got a great name: it's Destiny. Lol.

[MoveAlong]

Lol :D

You may not want to sit down for an entire movie, you could try a nice ice cream or walk in the park.

Well, the boyfriend...can you tell us if she is more into you than him? Or do you not know? Maybe you should just talk with her when he's not around, and listen to see if she likes you, without plainly asking :)

[mr_smite1]

PLay it cool, u dont wanna mess it up. Also if she does break up with that guy, just b there 2 comfort her....I am waiting myself........

[BP_Saladin]

Here's my take; just be really close to her, but don't actually make any moves on her. You said that at the end of that party, she was high spirited and glomped you. Just do whatever you did at that party that you think made her that way, and just forget about your goal of "dating" right now. Focusing on dating will just build up stress. She wouldn't actually be seing you, but a stressed out "bizzaro world" version of you.

Zen dating - hell yeah.

[mr_smite1]

wayhey zen dating! What saladin sed i think is gr8 advice, but try not to tell her about tha nudism thing yet, it might scare her