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sam i am
May 17th, 2010, 06:48 PM
Guy ik and he knows im bisexual And lately he been flirting alot with me,hes not gay or bi hes just curious but lately he keep asking when we gonna fool around. I dont wanna fool around with him and he doesn't get it.. How can i let him down easy without him getting mad? cuz ik what type of person he is he's gonna spread rumors if i don't fool around with him.

PatrickZii
May 17th, 2010, 07:19 PM
Just keep playing it the same way you are now. And...maybe find some new friends.

Sceneboy612
May 17th, 2010, 07:31 PM
Just tell him you dont want to. Or that you like someone else. And if he spreads rumors, just tell people he is mad because he cant get in your pants ;)

CuriousDestruction
May 17th, 2010, 10:32 PM
there are a few things you can do. you can just tell him straight out and like John said, you can spread rumors about him in turn. or you can act like a totally different person or a plain jerk to get him not to like you. or you can tell him you already have someone. PM me for more suggestions.

Uprising
May 17th, 2010, 10:32 PM
Just tell him you don't want to. Better now then if he keeps flirting more and more over time.

nick
May 18th, 2010, 02:17 AM
He needs to understand that just because you're bi that doesnt mean you want to play around with just anyone. Its good that you are mature enough not to just go along with it. Just tell him you're not interested, he's likely bluffing.

Scarface
May 18th, 2010, 03:10 AM
If that's all he wants from you then h=you just need to be straight forward with him and tell him that you don't like him that way. Or you can just say that he's not you're type and you already have someone. If he spreads rumors deny them you don't want to retaliate because that only causes more problems. The best thing would just to be honest with him that way he gets the message. Be a jerk if you have to. Good luck