Dunce
May 17th, 2010, 11:30 AM
Ok, right.
I liked boys until I was 14, and then I just went off them. I started liking girls but it took a while for me to admit it to myself. i decided that I wouldn't label myself and I would just have crushes. Since I hadn't liked boys in ages and I had only become ok with my girl crushes I made a list of people i was attracted to, just because I like to lust over people! It mostly had girls on it.
So, next morning i woke up and didnt feel remotely attracted to girls. I had a crush on my friend and a teacher but now I dont even like them. It's really confusing and I really want to know what happened.
Has this happened to anyone? It took me 2 years to become ok with having girl crushes because i was so used to liking boys.
Why do I lose interest as soon as I become confortable? The crushes I had were proper, I had really strong feelings and now they're just gone. I wasnt restricting myself to one sex so it has nothing to do with that?
By the way I'm 16 and I wasnt just physically attracted to girls I was emotionally attracted to them too, this is why It took me long to get comfortable with it.
I liked boys until I was 14, and then I just went off them. I started liking girls but it took a while for me to admit it to myself. i decided that I wouldn't label myself and I would just have crushes. Since I hadn't liked boys in ages and I had only become ok with my girl crushes I made a list of people i was attracted to, just because I like to lust over people! It mostly had girls on it.
So, next morning i woke up and didnt feel remotely attracted to girls. I had a crush on my friend and a teacher but now I dont even like them. It's really confusing and I really want to know what happened.
Has this happened to anyone? It took me 2 years to become ok with having girl crushes because i was so used to liking boys.
Why do I lose interest as soon as I become confortable? The crushes I had were proper, I had really strong feelings and now they're just gone. I wasnt restricting myself to one sex so it has nothing to do with that?
By the way I'm 16 and I wasnt just physically attracted to girls I was emotionally attracted to them too, this is why It took me long to get comfortable with it.