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Dunce
May 17th, 2010, 11:30 AM
Ok, right.
I liked boys until I was 14, and then I just went off them. I started liking girls but it took a while for me to admit it to myself. i decided that I wouldn't label myself and I would just have crushes. Since I hadn't liked boys in ages and I had only become ok with my girl crushes I made a list of people i was attracted to, just because I like to lust over people! It mostly had girls on it.

So, next morning i woke up and didnt feel remotely attracted to girls. I had a crush on my friend and a teacher but now I dont even like them. It's really confusing and I really want to know what happened.
Has this happened to anyone? It took me 2 years to become ok with having girl crushes because i was so used to liking boys.
Why do I lose interest as soon as I become confortable? The crushes I had were proper, I had really strong feelings and now they're just gone. I wasnt restricting myself to one sex so it has nothing to do with that?

By the way I'm 16 and I wasnt just physically attracted to girls I was emotionally attracted to them too, this is why It took me long to get comfortable with it.

Dunce
May 18th, 2010, 12:37 PM
:O 50 people have looked at this and no one replied.
Didnt think I'd be ignored on here too.

Scarface
May 18th, 2010, 12:44 PM
Hey, maybe you could be bi? Why don't you take a little time to reflect and really think about it. You don't have to make up you're mind about you're orientation yet, but when you find out what you like you will be much happier with yourself especially when you accept and like yourself. If you like one more than the other that's fine. If you find out you like both that's fine too. It's typical to have curiosities about the opposite and same sex. It's normal

Dunce
May 18th, 2010, 12:53 PM
Thanks Goose, I suppose it is best to wait it out :yes:
but I have a curious friend and well, she was describing to me how she felt, and she asked me if I just like the look and idea of being with a girl or of it was something more. I told her it was something more, and I'm pretty sure I was a little more than curious...
Maybe I'm focusing too much on the sex aspect of things :confused: