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Theleonz
May 17th, 2010, 02:58 AM
So anyway, this is between me and one of my best friends.. So she is going out with some guy. I don't really like him, and even though he parties, smokes and drinks, she still likes him. I know that this person has been cheating on other people before and I don't trust him. I know this is like none of my business, but I can't let this happen... I should be supporting her and being a good friend. Yet, it's like I don't want them to be together..
What should I do..?:confused:
steve1234
May 17th, 2010, 03:38 AM
This isn't surprising seeing as a lot of girls like to date the jerks.
Maybe you should just have a word with her, aske her why she is dating him or something like that, and try to give some helpful advice.
Hopefully someone else on this forum could give some better advice though :D
Ryhanna
May 17th, 2010, 07:07 AM
Personally I wouldn't speak to her about it, at least not first. I'd tell him not to cheat and her and let him know that you care about her and will keep a close eye on him. It's not her fault she's attracted to him after all...
But you do what makes sense to you. If anything.
Scarface
May 17th, 2010, 07:27 AM
I know it's hard to see a friend make mistakes, but if your friend is dead set in her decision to stay with this guy then let her learn the lesson for herself. I wouldn't get too involved because if he doesn't turn out the way you predict she will think you're trying to get with him. This situation can be a double edged sword. I have been in this situation. The best thing to do is let her find out on her own. I don't think she will believe it when you tell her. I hope everything works out okay.
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