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TaintedBlood
May 17th, 2010, 12:32 AM
(I'm sorry if this is in the wrong forum)

I've been fighting with this girl J. And I did and said a few immature things that I shouldn't have and now she isn't leaving me alone about anything.

I took her off of my facebook friends a while ago and then when I got over what was happening, she just had to add me back on facebook. Me, being the stupid person I am, accepted her request.

Then she started to send me messages like "your nothing but an emo/punk wannabe bitch!!" and "I'm not talking to you and I'm over everything that has happened!!! Byez!!! And dont fucking cut urself bcuz i said something you didnt like! mk goodbye"
After that she accused me of not trying to stop cutting. she told me to stop acting stupid and I didn't understand and all she said was "just stop talking to me. You don't understand why I'm not talking to u and you dont understand the fact that we're not friends" and she just logged off.

I took her off of my friends list and blocked her.

Why is she acting like this? I'm trying to get over what happened and she is just making the whole situation worse.

Her and I used to be best friends until this crap happened.

What should I do? Please help me.

Brighter.Tomorrow
May 17th, 2010, 12:55 AM
Ugh, I'm sorry to hear that. =/

I think what you may need to do, is forget her. It may seem hard, but forget she exists, if she talks to you, keep walking.
How she is acting, is not your fault, she is acting like that, because she is that way. Little will change that.

I used to cut, and I got made fun of and called names for it, that made it worse. But i realized, What matters is me getting the help I needed and not what others say.

You can feel free to VM me if you ever need to talk.

steve1234
May 17th, 2010, 02:34 PM
In life, there will always be idiots like these, its just one of those things unfortunatly.
You seem to have done the right thing by blocking her on Facebook, as it will help you to forget her.

Hollywood
May 17th, 2010, 06:49 PM
Some people are assholes. In fact, a lot of people are. She is one of those people. She treated you wrong on many immature levels. Ignore her and let her go.

Don't blame yourself for her actions, and certainly don't change who you are because of it. The best thing you can do is just leave it and forget her.

Best of luck to you, you can contact me if you need more help.

Art_dude
May 18th, 2010, 05:20 PM
I'm sorry hun :/ She's showing an agressive front because she was clearly hurt, offended, and confused by what you had said, whatever that was. I'm not defending her, and I'm not saying what she is doing is o.k., but that's probably why she is lashing out. Most of the time, retaliation comes from a place of insecurity, which she clearly has a lot of. If that seems to be the end of it (which it seems to be) just let go and move on. It is good to at least try and sympathize that she is such a hardened person. If however this continues, express your apologies that you offended her somehow, and that you'd appreciate it if you can both move on.

Ryhanna
May 18th, 2010, 05:47 PM
Yeah, stay away from her, I think

the thing about school is that it's harder to stay away...
Just because she's being a bitch, don't let her (this may sound a little young) steal your other friends. I have a friend who was in a similar situation and when she tried to cut her ... "friend" out, she panicked and responded by trying to convince everyone else that she was the victim. Of course, I knew the truth and outed the bitch a selfish liar and she shut up and went away.

XxskatergirlxX
May 18th, 2010, 07:12 PM
She's just trying to get you mad and start a fight. Act like you don't care and make her seem like shes stupid. Like when she says "Your stupid!" say "thanks for thinking about me" it will drive her crazy. she will soon get annoyed. or just say stuff like " why are you wasting your typing energy on me, because what your saying makes no sense and doesnt bother me"