ok to ask her out?

[dmeek7]

Is it ok to ask a girl out that you barely know?
we dont really talk. we say hi and stuff, but we dont really talk. we have gone to school together for most of our lives. she knows i exist.
What do you think she would say?

[nick]

Its OK to ask, but be prepared for the fact that she might say no.

[Trackstar29]

Not a good idea, because that chemistry isnt there so it may not last long, o it just want feel right.

[AllieBama]

Try getting to know her a lil bit better.....see if you actually like her. Just start by saying more than "hey" to her. Try hanging around her more. Then once you get to know her a little bit better, and she's more used to the idea of you being around her, ask her out....you still might get turned down but this will probably better your chances at getting a "yes"

[Haven]

I definitely wouldn't ask her out just yet. I mean, it's okay to ask her, but it might be better to get to know her a tad bit more beforehand. Like for instance, hang out with her with some mutual friends first then ask her to go out on a date with you. Thennnnnn ask her to be your girlfriend. :D Take tiny steps before going to the big one, and you should be totally fine. Asking her right off the bat might not be the best idea, and she could potentially say no just because you don't know each other too well.

[Hollywood]

In my opinion, you need to get to know someone before you try to make a commitment to them. If you know nothing about them, how do you know you are compatabile? Just become friends with her first, get to know her, and then, if you still want to, ask her out.

I guarantee you if you ask her out now, she will either say no or you two won't last long.

Good luck to you.

[Art_dude]

"In my opinion, you need to get to know someone before you try to make a commitment to them..."

I would hardly call asking someone ask a 'commitment.' but I see where you're going with whether he will potentially not have similar interests etc.

I'm gonna go against the norm here, and suggest you should ask her out. I think you should get to know her A LITTLE bit more, (being on a regular first name basis, occasionally hanging out, flirting etc) but I think asking someone out you don't know entirely well is less nerve racking than someone you know really well. IF she says no, it's not a huge blow. But yes, to reiterate what's been said, get to know her SOME more, try flirting with her, make your intentions known, and go for it.

[Paladino]

Thats a no go, you hardly know her, like everyone else has said get to know her alot more then ask her out. Wait for a like "connection" between you two and if you like her and you think she likes you, go for it, Good Luck.

[Hollywood]

"In my opinion, you need to get to know someone before you try to make a commitment to them..."

I would hardly call asking someone ask a 'commitment.' but I see where you're going with whether he will potentially not have similar interests etc.

I'd say that being in a relationship with one person is a commitment to not going out with other people.

[Art_dude]

uh.... Asking someone out doesn't mean you're in a relationship. We're talking about dating. Last I checked, asking someone out on a first date doesn't mean you're in a relationship. But I guess that's your prerogative.

[Jess]

Get to know her before you ask

[GeneralCrash70]

I'd get to know her a little better, or just tell her you kinda like her and would wanna get to know her a lil better so it makes poppin the question a lil easier for the both of you, but only do it when youre totally sure you'll have the best results...

[1_21Guns]

I'd get to know her first if I was you, yeah she might still say yes regardless of the fact your not close, but it's a bit of a longshot. If you start to get to know her, you might be able to tell if she likes you back before you make a fool of yourself if she says no.

[AlwaysConfused]

try to get to know her summore first b4 you take dat step. if u dnt she may get creepd or sumn

[PatrickZii]

Definitely better to get to know her first...but if you feel that strongly, maybe she will think it is romantic :)

[HillBillyWilly]

Here's my strategy:

If you like a girl, but don't see her or know her very well, try to get closer to her and become her friend. This increases the chances of her saying yes.

Then, if you feel like she will most likely say yes, go for it. sometimes it works, but most of the time you can still stay friends.

[zoom zoom]

Not a good idea, because that chemistry isnt there so it may not last long, o it just want feel right.

like track said. its not a good idea. you need to get to know her first. but to an extent. if you get to close were she thinks you too are just good friends. you kinda screwed the pooch on that one. so really just get to know her. then take her out on a date or something. GJ