Big Problem with GIrls

[Sirricharic]

It seems like everytime I get real close to a girl they always say they only see me as a friend. Like rly? I try to be nice and ask them how their day was and stuff but I keep getting stuck in the friend Zone I WANT A GIRLFRIEND not a friend that happens to be a girl :(

[Viral Death]

Maybe ask one out. Just be yourself and say would you like a relationship with me. And why do you think of me for a friend when I think of you as a girlfriend and a lover

[Sirricharic]

That does't work

[AllieBama]

Well I see 2 ways to go at this.

1) Ask these girls that are your friends what qualities they look for in a boyfriend. If you don't mind "tweaking" your personality to embody some of those qualities, then try it and see if they see you differently.

2) If you have a girl that you're pretty good friends with, then tell her you wanna start dating, and ask her if she'll help find a girl.

Personally I would go with option 2, cuz you shouldn't have to change yourself drastically for a girl. If you do, then you end up not really being yourself (unless you're a total jerk, then you might wanna think about a personality overhaul lmao)

Good Luck, hope this helps somewhat

[Trackstar29]

You have to break that barier, and kinda let them know how u fel about them. Tell her you just dont want to be friends,but something more

[Mitch14]

Ya, like what was just said above, tell her you like her, thats what i did a while ago, and we went out....but then she cheated, but thats beside the point, tell her that u like her, things happen. but dont go crazy and tell her u adore her and shit like that, just say somthin like " i kinda like you "

[Art_dude]

Well I see 2 ways to go at this.

1) Ask these girls that are your friends what qualities they look for in a boyfriend. If you don't mind "tweaking" your personality to embody some of those qualities, then try it and see if they see you differently.

2) If you have a girl that you're pretty good friends with, then tell her you wanna start dating, and ask her if she'll help find a girl.

Personally I would go with option 2, cuz you shouldn't have to change yourself drastically for a girl. If you do, then you end up not really being yourself (unless you're a total jerk, then you might wanna think about a personality overhaul lmao)

Good Luck, hope this helps somewhat

Well said!!!
I'm sorry to say you're continually getting stuck in the 'friend zone' because, unlike most guys, you seem to give a fuck. Girls aren't attracted to guys that ask them how their day went, or treat them in a gentlemen like fashion. They say they want that but they don't (sadly) They really want the bad boy. Many girls want to make it their project to change them into the good boy, so they can have a little rebellion and rockn'roll, but also have a sensitive and compassionate partner. Girls aren't biting the bait because they don't see you as a challenge. And no matter how attractive you are, well spoken, or seductive, they will not take notice until you show them an equal side of flaws.

As AllieBama said, if you don't mind tweaking your personality a bit, you should. Obviously you shouldn't change major things about yourself that define you as a person, but wardrobe change, hair change, the way you approach girls etc, are things that can always be improved on. I also like option 2 that Allie gave - having friends help you find a girl is very helpful. It sends out the signal that you're serious, and that you genuinely care about who they think is right - it shows you trust their judgement (now that's something girls realllly like!)

[Hatsune Miku]

Don't date unless you actually love whoever you're asking out. Don't just date them because you want a girlfriend. If you want to move further than the friend zone, try and always be there for that girl. Be there when she needs help and nobody else is around. Comfort her. Hang out alot, And just like Allison said, if you're really good friends with a girl ask her if she can find someone who might be interested in you.

Remember, good things come to those who wait.

[AlwaysConfused]

try to break the ice mayb ask her out work ur way up to it.

[AllThatIsLeft]

If you aren't interested in someone in particular, you just have to wait. Honestly, dating for the sake of dating never ends good.

If you aren't happy about you not being able to be liked beyond the friend zone, I recommend you think about what is it that you're doing wrong.

Stop thinking about so much, and just be. Someone will come along, just have to be patient.

[ILOVEYOU]

you should give it a try and ask someone out, to see whats the problem.. (if there is any btw). if they get flattered (in a good way) or blushed then it means you're good even tho they said no or "umm.. i actually dont want a date atm", if not.. then you should follow Allison's steps/advice. i hope it helped

[janthem]

wow this has happened to me n now she's one of my closest friends but just keep trying cuz u sometimes need tht friendship to make it into something more