Have you ever felt that people kinda hate you even though they're being nice to you?

[SimSailorNick]

Have you ever felt like people are being nice to you, talking to you, complimenting you and stuff but deep inside you can sense that they're annoyed or they really hate you or they're thinking bad stuff about you?

Recently i've been talking to people online and in real life and a few times i felt like this. It's weird cause i don't know what i did wrong but i can sense that they're thinking something that's not right about me.

[Kaius]

I'm the same, but its not just on here, its in real life as well. Im a paranoid person most of the time, I always think that if someone looks my way and gives a weird look, its me they're looking at. I think the key to this is confidence. The more you have the less things like this affect you, and vice versa.

[Jess]

always. I always feel this way

[kidkizzet]

yeah i do feel that way. sometimes i think im just paranoid but at other times im almost certain that its just a cover because 5 minutes later i swear i hear them talkin about me to other people.

[Viral Death]

Thats Manila High. Everyone is like that. The first second people hear your depressed you shun you and dare you to leave or kill yourself. Its a portal to hell if you ask me

[Sith Lord 13]

Yeah, with almost everyone I speak to.

[SimSailorNick]

Do you confront them or ask them what's wrong? I've been thinking about what'll happen if i do that and i'm thinking they might really think i'm weird for asking that.

[piggy-wiggy]

if you feel like its time to ask people, do. ive asked a couple of people what there problem with me is before.. and it turned out pretty okay to be honest.. i just thold them i wanted to know, even if it wasnt big.. turned out most of it was just in my head, from my own imagination, like previously said, the confidence thing,. (:

[XxskatergirlxX]

yes! i hate it!

[steve1234]

Yeah happens to me all the time.
I seem to analyse everything people say to me, and I get paranoid every time someone looks in my direction - I think they are looking at me.

[Jess]

Do you confront them or ask them what's wrong? I've been thinking about what'll happen if i do that and i'm thinking they might really think i'm weird for asking that.

nope :/ too scared

[1_21Guns]

I always get this, pretty much with anyone i talk to... but i have a history of people being like that with me, so i'm just naturally paranoid over it.

[Inconvenience]

well, i'm confident enough to know that i do nothing wrong so that people should hate me, but if they do , i don't give a damn because i know i'm right about the way i live. and in addition i have a lot of people who love me and all the hater-weirdos just cant crack my shell

[Zeh Crazy]

I feel like that all of the time and nothing hurts worse or is more backstabbing. I've thought multiple times that people don't like me, but yet they're nice to me because they feel sorry for me. And I don't like to be pitied. That's almost worse than backstabbing, to be pitied. That no one really values you as a person. They just feel sorry for you.

[SimSailorNick]

I feel like that all of the time and nothing hurts worse or is more backstabbing.

I totally feel your pain.

[SimSailorNick]

yeah i do feel that way. sometimes i think im just paranoid but at other times im almost certain that its just a cover because 5 minutes later i swear i hear them talkin about me to other people.

Wow. I'm very paranoid too. I wish there was a way i could like not be paranoid but it's hard.

[Asylum]

i'm going through the same thing hun, real life and online... try telling yourself no.. this is a though in my head... they don't really hate me. if they hated you they woulnd't be wasting their time with you. online,people are rather comfortable behind their computer mask, so if they hated you,they wouldn't have a problem with saying it..in real life its hard because people wear that mask, ilike you in real life. they pretend to like you sometimes to get close to hurt you...but thats people seomtimes and that is life...however Nick anyone messes with you online i'll virtually beat them up xp. what does it matter if Billy Bob Joe from Tawain hates you anyway? i mean, you'll never see him...his words are meaningless.. Nick your awesome, no one could hate you.

if you feel like you should ask,do so, it never hurts to ask. however the whole issue with ahh..i thinkthis person hates me... or is using me... well it sucks... hope any of what i said helps :)

[scuba steve]

i always feel like this, i'm a very paranoid person and i get the feeling that if i haven't talked to someone in a while that they're really pissed off with me for some reason... luckly though because of where i live, if there was people who didn't like you the majority wouldn't hide it they'd just automatically tell you to fuck off lmao

[ShatteredWings]

I always get this, pretty much with anyone i talk to... but i have a history of people being like that with me, so i'm just naturally paranoid over it.

I feel like that all of the time and nothing hurts worse or is more backstabbing.
Yeah... these.

People have turned around and stabbed me in the back so many times, i don't trust when they're being overly nice.
I get along better with people who start more neutral and then start legitimately caring later, after they've had a chance to reject me if they so chose to.
They don't come around very often though =\ and I can't approach people very well [again, they stab you in the back]

[dbrkk]

Yep..I have a huge issue with trusting people when they give me a compliment. It's amazing what 10 years of constant tormenting and name-calling can do to you..

[xbox360guy]

Yes! Once, I have E-mailed someone about 5 times within a month. They were always nice, but I can't help but thinking they got annoyed about it...

[steve1234]

Have you ever felt like people are being nice to you, talking to you, complimenting you and stuff but deep inside you can sense that they're annoyed or they really hate you or they're thinking bad stuff about you?

Recently i've been talking to people online and in real life and a few times i felt like this. It's weird cause i don't know what i did wrong but i can sense that they're thinking something that's not right about me.

Yes all the time! I might have something to do with my paranoia :D , but I often feel this.
I rarely get compliments, and when people do give me compliments, I always think they are after something.

People sometimes are nice to me through gritted teeth, and its so obvious. Like they are pretending to be nice.

[REGRET]

Yes, I feel like that almost every day. Almost every time I talk to my friends I feel like they are really thinking "Fuck off, bitch".

[ortmann123]

got that feeling alot, theyre all nice to me but nobody really likes me

[Jess]

people say nice things and I notice them glaring at me....but only a few people....>_>