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[XxskatergirlxX]

me and my bf had sex today. He came inside of me. We have done so many times with out a condom before but he never came in side of me like he did today. he warned me that he was but i was to horny to care but now i do. what are the chances i am pregnant?
im really scared. and abortion is NOTT an option if i am pregnant, so dont even mention it. Im totally against it. So do you think i am pregnant? My boyfriend and i have been together for two almost three years in July. He already said that he would stay with me no matter what, because this is NOTHING compared to what we have been through together. im so scared

[CuriousDestruction]

okay, first, calm down. 2nd, how long ago did this occur? you can take a morning after pill within 24 hours or so. also, are you on the pill? any other contraceptive? there is a chance of pregnancy but we can't know for sure right now. PM or IM me to talk hun. *hugs*

[CantBeTamed]

get the plan b if you have to but if you are all i can say is no abortion its good your agienst it so just either go with adoption which i personally wouldnt do so just be the best mommy u can be

[nick]

You could be pregnant, but some couples have sex for years before they conceive so its not as if every shot on target results in a pregnancy. Or to put that another way, you'd be kind of unlucky. Having said that if you are regularly having unprotected sex, even if he usually pulls out sooner, you are playing with fire there and if you are lucky this time you need to learn from it and either get yourself on the pill or get him some condoms.

[Kaius]

Teen sexuality :arrow2: Relationships and Dating

[Zazu]

There's a good chance you are - yep. Your boyfriend wouldn't have even needed to actually 'fully' ejaculate for you to become pregnant as some sperm can enter the seminal fluid which exits the penis before ejaculation.

Just try not to be scared about it - there's nothing you can do to change things now, they've happened.

It just goes to show how important condoms are.

[Trackstar29]

Calm down, if this didnt happen to long ago u could take the pill.

[The Dark Lord]

I wouldn't worry about being preganant if it isn't that time of the month

[XxskatergirlxX]

I wouldn't worry about being preganant if it isn't that time of the month

what do you mean?

[AllieBama]

I wouldn't worry about being preganant if it isn't that time of the month

Yea......Don't listen to this^^^

Like Nick said, y'all are playing with fire by having unprotected sex. They're called condoms....they cost like $1 a piece (which is much cheaper than a pregnancy and baby). That being said, condoms can't really help you now. There's no way to tell if you're gonna get pregnant until it's too late to change anything. If you want to be certain that you aren't going to be pregnant, go to the pharmacy and get Plan B (or some other type of emergency contraceptive). They're effective up to 72 hours after conception (sex), but generally the rule of thumb is the sooner the better. I would advise you go do this, then start implementing safer sex...."pulling out" still gets girls pregnant.

[lil baller]

how old r u?

[Hollywood]

Well, it's basically a 50/50 shot, you could be, or you couldn't be. By now, if you haven't already, more than likely the Plan B pill won't work anymore (altough you should still take it). The only way you will know for sure is if you just take the test or go to your doctor.

Don't worry about it yet, you may not be. But for the love of god, use protection next time. Ten minitues of unprotected sex could equal a lifetime of regret, it's not worth it.

If you do happen to be pregnant, then there's nothing you can do. Don't flip out, just wait for it to happen, and then choose adoption if you don't think you can take care of it.

Good luck.

[Kitty Purry]

Your not gonna know if your pregnet until it's too late! Soo I would advise that you get the day after pill! And you NEED! To start having safe sex! Get some condoms, get on the pill! But like Nick said your playing with fire! With you guys not using any sort of protection on a regular basis, your very lucky you havnt already been pregnet! :-P

[GeneralCrash70]

You know, if you are, you are, I'm not being an ass but you did have unprotected sex in the first place, so you risk it, but good for you not going the route of abortion and being responsible, but I'd be prepeared for that infamous missed period...

[TomBaseball]

I agree with everyone else. If you can't get on the pill at least make him wear a condom.

[The Red Devil]

Okay first thing calm down.

The chances of getting pregnant after one time of unprotected sex are actually slimmer than you may think. First you need to actually be in the right part of your cycle. I believe its something like theres only 48 hours or something of your whole cycle you can actually get pregnant. And second, just because his sperm entered you even if you were at the right time, then theres no guarantee you will actually be pregnant. As someone else said, some people try for kids for months or years without falling pregnant

[AllThatIsLeft]

Okay first of all, if you have a regular menstrual cycle, you should be able to count since your first day of bleeding to about 14 days, give or take, it should be your fertile time... if you had sex during this time chance are high that you might be pregnant. Because young men and women are so fertile, chances are greater than older people.

Now, it's way too late for the Plan B, and I hope you took it. But get yourself a pregnancy test. It should be long enough, and there is no better confirmation than actually testing yourself.

For your sake, i hope you don't have unprotected sex anymore. It's takes $1 and two minutes to get that shit on, and then you don't have to worry sick afterwards.