friend passed away

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[Kaius]

Family and Friends :arrow2: DL&G

Im so sorry to hear about your friend. Though she's gone the important thing is to concentrate on the good times you had with her, although they can be just as painful as the bad memories, it'll help you to come to terms with the loss much quicker. Losing a close friend is one of the hardest things to go through in life, and really there isn't a cure as such to stop the pain. The pain will not go, but it will ease over time. Try, if possible to cry, it will help a little bit, don't bottle it all up. Talk about it, whether it be to your parents, to a pet, or even just writing things down in a diary or a blog somewhere on your computer. Try to keep busy, watch some movies or read a book, go out with other friends. Don't think you're alone in this, if you need to talk to anyone feel free to private message or email me at any time.

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[Kaius]

No problem.. I've been where you are.. and really, its years since and its still painful, but it will ease slowly..i promise you that.

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[PatrickZii]

I lost a good friend recently as well, and it hurts still to this day. Like Kaius says...focus on the good times, and though the sadness never passes you learn to enjoy life more and to remember all the good times.

[scuba steve]

Grieve... i'm sorry i've been so blunt with it, but it has been the most helpful thing for me when i have experienced loss. when i lost my uncle a couple years ago i went to the funeral and i did cry, surprising even myself at it... but you know it actually helped, it helped me get over the fact and to except it. this may be some shoddy advice but it's the best that i can offer

[Trackstar29]

Its really hard to get over something like this, you cant reallyt forget her so i mean its kinda hard

[ExEmoBlood]

Sadly you'll never quite get over it. Loss is... an amazingly harsh thing. And I speak from experience.

But just try to remember that she'd want you to go on. And trust me-- I know that sounds like a bunch of bullshit. But it's true. If she meant that much to you: just TRY to go on and cherish your memories of her. I say "try" because it'll be very hard for a while. But you will get better over time. Completely healed of the grief: no. But you'll feel a little better as time goes on. One way I delt with losing someone... someone extremely close to me-- let's just say that-- is I wrote a poem. A poem to say goodbye, to apologize for not being there to say goodbye. It helped some. Maybe you should try. And don't worry if it's not that great, either. You're going for self-expression. Getting that anger and sadness out. The poem I wrote barely even had a scheme to it. And when you're this distraught about loss, it's hard to arrange things very well, anyway. Just try. Post it in here if you do write one. I'm sure it'll be great.

Just know that you meant as much to her as she did to you. Take comfort in that, at least. I know that doesn't help much, but it's really all I can say.

Stay strong, my friend. My empathy goes out to you.

[SimSailorNick]

I'm very sorry for your loss. Just remember that if you're not happy, she ain't gonna be happy either. Just lighten up. I think that she knows you care a lot about her and that will make her feel good.

[HellHound]

Bullshit..I lost my friend a month ago.Very sorry for you but deeply understand.Why do people keep on dying,its unfair.

[Jess]

I'm sorry about your friend :( *hugs*

[1_21Guns]

time. that's how.
feeling all this won't bring her back.
try to remember all the good times, regreting you never got to say goodbye isn't going to give you a chance to.
i'm really sorry your going through this hun, just remember your not alone.
and we'll all happily support you.
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