Does anybody feel...alone?

[TravM]

Do any other guys just feel alone? Not in the sense of wanting to have a gf/bf, but just alone. I feel as if no one knows me. No one knows who I am or. I can't even finish that sentence because I don't understand it. I don't know what I feel.

[Zackk]

Are you high? lol. I feel like that after i smoke somtimes.

[Quietboy]

I think i know how you feel, if you mean that you dont got many friends and you are mostly just a shy and quiet person.. or somthing like that.

Pm if you want to talk :D

[Zackk]

I think i know how you feel, if you mean that you dont got many friends and you are mostly just a shy and quiet person.. or somthing like that.

Pm if you want to talk :D

Just to let you know, you have to have 100 posts to pm.

[AnimeLover1991]

I feel the same way too, but I think it's my fault because I don't post often though I'm going to try to more often.

[budd55]

today i felt like that, but im not a shy person or anything, actually i think i have adhd, but idk the end of the school day, i felt really out of it, like i didnt care for anything much, and i didnt want to be anywhere period, as if i kinda wanted to die.

[CantBeTamed]

all the time

[dbrkk]

Yep, same here..everything you described :/

[Harley Quinn]

This isn't puberty related, moving somewhere more fitting

[Aspiringanonymous]

Precisely so. I have no desire for any form of intimate attachment with other human beings, yet I do yearn for spiritual companionship. Someone who is on the same path in regards to values, perceptions, and ideals. There seems to be none at all; as most of my own conceptions of existence are in stark contrast with established social norms and accepted trends. It doesn't make me feel lonely, per se - it contributes to an ever-strengthening sense of detachment from the rest of humanity, which in turns causes a strain of inner chaos.

And yet, it is true - no two individuals will ever be completely alike. Life is in many ways a solitary experience - your consciousness can only ever be inhabited by you, and thus complete integration of separate entities is not possible. Others can accompany us, and affect us in significant ways, but the distinction remains that they are part of the external world. They, in full, cannot actually become a part of you.

One challenging aspect of leading a deviant existence is finding that one may not have anyone to turn to for guidance in times of confusion - because most people cannot even begin to comprehend one's ways, much less comment on it in an insightful manner.

But you are not alone in your experience of isolation, that I assure you. :hug3:

[Tarragona]

Do we make a difference between being alone and feeling lonely? Sometimes I like being alone, but I don't like feeling lonely, which I do from time to time

[Kaius]

To be honest I'm the same. Though I prefer being alone a lot of the time. I'm not really all that social, and don't really have 'friends' as such where I live. Im a solitary person, and really no one does know who I am underneath all this. I admit, a lot of people I don't give a chance to find out, but I just hate letting people in close to me. Strangely though, here I was able to put that aside and get to know people, gained more friends than I've had for a long time and a girlfriend. Currently though, shes the only one I've let near enough to me to understand certain things about me. You aren't alone in this, although you may feel it there are plenty of others that feel the same, with a few other added things as well.

[steve1234]

I always feel alone. My parents are helpful and good to talk to, but they don't really know who I am. I do have a small/medium size group of friends, but I tend to keep myself distant from them. They enjoy going to parties and destroying their livers, they like going out at night, and socialising, which is not my idea of fun. I feel like I am nothing like them, and I often feel I have no one to talk to (which is why I have started to use this forum which is answering most of my questions about life). It does get me down quite often.
I agree with a lot of Kaius' points as well.

[Jess]

not always but sometimes.

[Antonioc]

YES. I hate it! It's extremely stupid, I have a sh-tload of friends and we can always have a good time, but some days I just feel like nobody cares about me. I stay at home and SI when I could probably be having fun somewhere else, but I just... feel alone? I don't know how to put this. It's not like I'm forgetting about my friends, it's more like thinking that they don't care about me, or they're not important? The thing I hate most is the next night I can have soo much fun with them, despite my prior feelings, and STILL end up feeling alone myself.

[Trackstar29]

Not really,:D

[Clawhammer]

Yes actually. Very. For one thing, I don't get out much. And the other, my current best friendship is with my dog. My friends at school and such, it just seems like I can't have a serious conversation with them. Starts to piss you off after a while, too. Other reasons as well, but those are the main ones. I'm turning into a recluse...

[anokhi]

if you mean that you dont got many friends and you are mostly just a shy and quiet person.. or somthing like that.

[Zeh Crazy]

I like to be alone. I do not like to feel alone. There's a difference. I feel alone quite a lot, though... I just want someone to hold me...

[PatrickZii]

I think lots of people feel this way. It is part of growing up and figuring out who you are.

[cristian123]

your not alone i feel the same way :/

[Asylum]

i feel alone alot... :(

[Viral Death]

When I moved to Manila I felt so alone that I started to cut myself. I got in my head thought I still have my guardian angel, Tom, my grandparents, and my whole family with me. Through out the years I made some friends and lost others. But never be afraid to move on!

[aNicerNote]

All the time. :( It feels like i can't find any emotion anymore. I'm not a sociopath, its just that i can't feel.

[welcome_to_chaos]

As i hope youve seen everyone has times like that...feeling alone is a FEELING which means everyone experiances it at one point or another. the trick is when your feel alone think about the people who really care for u the people who u can really talk to. and i know this might sound weird but everyone her on vt cares... i know its weird that we care about random strangers but its true. we do care. so if u ever have a hard time with something u can always come to any of the mods (i wouldnt go to a random member because as sad as it is u cant true everyone on here) but the good thing about talking to a mod is u know theyll take the time to help you. its part of there job in my opinion and u can pm them no matter how many posts you have

[Vandaar]

I totally know how that is. I get that feeling alot =/

[xHunterXloganx]

I feel okay, lol, i didnt read the thread, haha