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Rdsxbaseballfan
May 10th, 2010, 03:59 PM
School started got the nicest teacher for homeroom. Started out great all As first semester.
Once we got to 3rd and 4th semester everything went down hill. 3 girls have turned me down. I have 1 friend that is a girl and I kinda like her. The semi-formal is coming and I always ask her who she would want to go to semi with. She always gave me 3 answers and they were different everytime. I kinda want to ask her but would feel stupid to be turned down again for the 4th time.

Ok now with my friends... They all treat me like crap at lunch time cause they r bored. I really only have 2 friends. The girl I mentioned above and a friend that's a boy. Idk I'm kinda friends with some of the popular people but I'm in the middle of all the nerds and popularity.

I have had thoughts of not wanting to live anymore but just don't know. My life is so complicated and wish I could just get a girlfriend or skip through my teenager years

PatrickZii
May 11th, 2010, 03:42 PM
I totally understand how you feel. There are times when I want so badly to just have someone to hold and to talk to and such. But a girlfriend doesn't change not being happy with your life. It would add some happiness, but you still need to go out and find what makes YOU happy before you can go and make someone else happy with you.

Jess
May 11th, 2010, 05:00 PM
I'm sorry you're going through this. it has been a little rough for me as well but not as bad as yours. I hope it gets better

Close102
May 11th, 2010, 06:08 PM
If it makes you feel better I've been turned down many times this year as well. But just because she isn't your girlfriend doesn't mean that you can't talk to her about stuff that bothers you. It might even be easier to talk to her as a friend than as a girlfriend because it can take a while to build up trust in a relationship to a point where you are completely honest with each other and can talk about anything.

As for your friends at lunch the best suggestion I can give you is to maybe sit at another people with people you might not know as well.

I don't know where your from so I don't know when your school year ends, but (at least for me) the year is almost over.

ThomasB.
May 17th, 2010, 05:56 PM
Going through almost the same as you buddy.. Hope you get through it soon :)

Icarus7
May 29th, 2010, 11:16 PM
Never try to skip your teen years. Teen years could be lovely but for the case you mention just to learn the ways of dealing with classmates and being popular :cool:...Things like irony and humour work fine. Using jokes to reach people works perfeclty, specially with girls :) Dont feel bad for being rejected by them. U will find the perfect one for u shortly for sure. Being a nerd is a plus if you know how to handle it. Use your smartness to learn your way through your clasmates and girls...Learn to play guitar or be a good sportsplayer could lift your popularity :yes:
If you are feeling down. Dont forget to PM me :)