Problems

[green]

Ok so my girl has been having headaches and she went to a doctor and found out they were from depression. She is always sad and is just bringing me down. I don't know what I can do to help as she never talks to me about it. What should I do as she never seems to enjoy being around me. Should I break up with her and let her sort it out or what? Cheers

[Forbidden Lover]

Give her some alone time. If she wont talk about her problems, that's on her. But maybe you should let her cool down, since she's ill right now, before deciding to break up

[Kaius]

Sort it out. Don't ever base a break up on something like that. She may not be talking to you about it for several reasons. One may be she doesn't want to worry you, or she may think shes putting a burden on you. You need to sit down with her and let her know you're there for her to talk to, and that you want to be let in close enough to her, but to do that you have to show her she can trust you. And by deciding to break up with her because shes not telling you things that's going to show her she can't. Be there for her, let her know you won't be going anywhere. It may be that she needs a bit of stability with all the new changes going on around her. For people with bad depression its extremely hard for them to let things go, and sometimes find that they're unable to feel happy, it might not be you that's the problem. As i said, talk to her and try and see things from her side a bit more.

[Trackstar29]

Just breaking up with her will make matters worse, so let her relax and try to talk to her later on.