Love but no kisses? what?

[NeedyTeen]

okay so i wont be seeing my boyfriend for a while now...so the last day we both knew we weren't gonna see each other and we were alone, in a private place where we would never get caught, he still didn't kiss me.

the thing is the day before he told me he loved me, like that was the first time he really showed his boyfriend side..

im confused, he's kissed his ex's. he hasn't kissed me. he "loves" me..but i dont know!!

what should i do..next time i see him is about 2 weeks. its when i get back from where i am. because after that day when we see each other, we won't see each other for another month. then after that month we are free to see each other all summer.
but anyways, i want to kiss him before that month arrives..but idk...i think im just rambling now..

[DayBreakArt]

I think you should chill and stop comparing yourself to his ex's. Im also pretty sure you posted something about this already. Just make the first move and kiss him. If you want it so bad take the initiative.

[Strength]

maybe hes waiting for you :D or he feels really strongly for you and is afraid to kiss you and wants it to be perfect.

[Hollywood]

Just because he didn't kiss you doesn't mean he doesn't love you, maybe he just wants to take it slow. If this is worrying you, just ask him why he hasn't wanted to make a move. Or, if you really just want to kiss him, just sneak one and see what he does.

Some guys are just like that, but he still loves you, don't worry.

[Origami]

I think you should chill and stop comparing yourself to his ex's. If you want it so bad take the initiative.

...Or, if you really just want to kiss him, just sneak one and see what he does.

Some guys are just like that...
Okay, firstly, both of those are quoted for exact, dead on statements.

Secondly, "love" is a gray area with teens. I say this because most people date for one day and WALAH, they're magically in love as if they've been dating for two years, which, clearly makes no sense.
With that off-topic rambling aside, kissing doesn't mean anything. If I don't kiss my girlfriend when we're together, it doesn't mean I don't love her. Kissing is not affection, it's simply a sign of affection. You can love without kissing and without physical contact.
Also, if your relationship is fairly new, seeing as you left that detail out, it could be him not wanting to get overly attached before you're both pulled apart for such periods of time.
To freak out over not being kissed is miniscule in the layers of problems a relationship could face.
And, as the others before me said so clearly, if you want the kiss that bad, take it.

[NeedyTeen]

it's not so much of the action, it's the thought. i dont care if his lips touch mine, i just wonder how can someone "love" someone else yet they have never done this common act.

it's simply a question, can he really love or like or whatever me, but not kiss me.

[Hollywood]

Just because he didn't kiss you doesn't mean he doesn't love you...

Some guys are just like that, but he still loves you, don't worry.

Yes he can. Kissing is simply an action, it has nothing to do with what you think of each other, and has nothing to do with love.

[NeedyTeen]

thanks. thats all i rly needed to know. he's my first bf, so im new to all this.

[Hollywood]

thanks. thats all i rly needed to know. he's my first bf, so im new to all this.

Well good luck to you, I hope everything works out.

[penguin13]

I hope he does, but make sure he's ready to

[Origami]

iit's simply a question, can he really love or like or whatever me, but not kiss me.

Okay, firstly, both of those are quoted for exact, dead on statements.

Secondly, "love" is a gray area with teens. I say this because most people date for one day and WALAH, they're magically in love as if they've been dating for two years, which, clearly makes no sense.
With that off-topic rambling aside, kissing doesn't mean anything. If I don't kiss my girlfriend when we're together, it doesn't mean I don't love her. Kissing is not affection, it's simply a sign of affection. You can love without kissing and without physical contact.
Also, if your relationship is fairly new, seeing as you left that detail out, it could be him not wanting to get overly attached before you're both pulled apart for such periods of time.
To freak out over not being kissed is miniscule in the layers of problems a relationship could face.
And, as the others before me said so clearly, if you want the kiss that bad, take it.

Lol, I answered that before you even asked the question hun. :P
Best of luck.

[Trackstar29]

Hmmm. . thats weird

[NeedyTeen]

^^^
I know..

[AllieBama]

Yea next time ya see him, just go for it!!! He's a guy, that said he loved you....he's NOT gonna turn you down :P

[Hollywood]

Yea next time ya see him, just go for it!!! He's a guy, that said he loved you....he's NOT gonna turn you down :P

As much as I would like to agree with that, I can't. People say a lot of things, and "I love you" is a very common lie. That's why I'm still leaning towards the talking about it first. Just saying "I love you" doesn't always mean they do.

[AllieBama]

As much as I would like to agree with that, I can't. People say a lot of things, and "I love you" is a very common lie. That's why I'm still leaning towards the talking about it first. Just saying "I love you" doesn't always mean they do.

Yea, but it's just a kiss, not like she would be proposing to him lol. Would you break up with a girl that you had been dating for several months just because she kissed you???

I mean yea, the safe thing would be to talk about it, but then that first kiss loses a lil bit of that magic. Maybe I'm just too much of a romantic to give advice on "first kisses" :wub:

[NeedyTeen]

i love romance...thats the thing. he's not very romantic..he is opening up more and more lately. and he is getting more romantic but that kiss just doesnt seem to come. lol.

but i keep in mind we're young, just frustrating because you know, i wanna have my first kiss.