How do I rekindle the flame?

[Don3]

Basically I want to get back with my ex but she broke up with me b/v she said she didn't feel it anymore, it's been a month and we're close friends you can say but we aren't as we we're before we went out (we were best friends) she says she misses how we use to be. Once i asked her what she would do if she was in my shoes and she said stay friends and see what happens, I know that shes 100% over me that i was her first real relationship. Is there anyway to repair this or should I just move on and be her friend?

[Don3]

hello?

[lipstick_kisses23]

usually when people make up their minds they are set on what they chose =[, maybe you should start out slow. Ask her to the movies or out to eat with a couple friends and then make your way back into her heart. When she's more certian things are comfortable start asking her out alone. Im sure she'll miss you as a bf then =].

[Hollywood]

Well, if she is over you, you just have to move on. There's no point in wasting your time on someone you know doesn't like you. Just stay friends with her, and maybe someday she will have a desire to be back together with you.

Don't try to force anything on her, if she ever wants to be with you again, you'll know. Just don't lose any sleep over it, and maybe find someone else to go out with.

Best of luck to you.

[PatrickZii]

Just continue working on being friends. Maybe someday she will see what a mistake she made!

[Kahn]

Maybe it wasn't meant to be but you never know. If a first try doesn't work out, why not try again?

What I have for you is this; Do not rush into another relationship with her. Work on building a strong friendship first, and then you should see if she is interested. If not simply let it go and continue on. Maybe one day you will get back together, but what matters right now is that you two are good friends. It is good that you can communicate between each other and stay good friends even though the failure before hand had occurred. Yours and her resilience must be great.

Do not rush into anything. Just continue with how it is going, and simply let it be. One day you may be able to get back together. Good luck.

[Trackstar29]

Take her advice and see what happens as friends, see if you guys can get that bond that u used to have with her