How to turn straight

[Roger2121]

How could i Turn straight if im bi or gay:confused:?

[Blood]

If you're bi or gay, you can't really 'turn' straight. It's a personal realization that you're sexually attracted to the same sex. You can deny that, but you can't 'turn' straight.

[nick]

You cant turn straight, its not really a choice. In the long term you will be happier if you accept how you are and dont try to fight it.

[Paladino]

Im not sure if you can turn straight because you dont choose to be the sexuality you are, your born with it.

[MacMilker]

Impossible, its genetics dear, you cant change genetics.

Well you COULD but through surgery.

[thepieman]

It aint happening.

The best thing you could do is try and accept yourself, you may find it hard at first, but remember it's OK and you're not on your own.

[Scarface]

Your born this way. If your bi/gay be happy and accept who you are you will be much happier. I'm gay and I'm proud. There is nothing wrong with being gay/bi don't let anyone tell you who you need to be, just be yourself.

[billyjames]

no offense to anybody who has commented already, but ur all wrong, u can become str8, very easily. if ur attracted to guys only then u r gay, if u like guys and girls, ur bi, or very curious. If you want to become str8, then u cant do the stuff that makes think of guys, get a gf, like girls, but if there's no attraction then u r who u r like the other guys said, but u can become str8, i used to be str8/curios, mostly bi for a while, i decided i did not like that, and now im just str8. and I LOVE girls, not guys, so well i do. if u have any other ?'s PM me, i will answer, but u rn't born gay, str8 or bi, u become what u want, genetics have nothing to do with it. at all. pick up a wonderful book called the BIBLE, and you will see i am right

[Peace God]

You cant really change who you are attracted to only your sexual conduct.
pick up a wonderful book called the BIBLE, and you will see i am right
lmao...how did i not see that coming?

[billyjames]

and what is that supposed to mean?

[Peace God]

and what is that supposed to mean?
most of the people that try to change someone's sexuality are religious

[sfmdraw]

flarnfilth, I saw that coming, too. I believe in the Bible, but even it has flaws. It wasn't written by God himself, but by mortal men. So of course there is, I believe, flaws here and there in it. And it changes depending on the version you read. So who's to say it's not God who hates gays, but the guys who wrote the Bible?

Anyway. Religious things aside, I think you're just the way that you are. There's no changing it. Sure, you can deny it your whole life, but it'd be much easier if you just accept you for you. :)
Good luck, mate.

[DrkZ90]

you are who you are and the way you are... things like sexuality CAN'T be changed... you are born that way, whether you like it or not... you might choose to not follow your heart and act straight, but beware that that's NOT the way to happiness... you will NEVER be happy if you lie to yourself.

[PatrickZii]

Yeah....outta luck my friend. Better to simply accept it and live it up!

[CuriousDestruction]

well, i'm not gonna try to convince you not to try to turn straight but i will say that i don't think you should

there are only a few ways to turn straight. 1. let your sexuality change for itself being the best way. many people think they are gay and turn out to be straight. many think they are straight and turn out to be gay. time will tell

2. if you believe in homosexuality being a genetic thing, experimental gene therapy can sometimes do it. it's very expensive, unproven and dangerous but you can try it.

lets not even discuss shock therapy. seriously.

[Zazu]

You can't turn into anything in terms of sexuality. All you can do is realise, accept and embrace it.

[Blood]

no offense to anybody who has commented already, but ur all wrong, u can become str8, very easily. if ur attracted to guys only then u r gay, if u like guys and girls, ur bi, or very curious. If you want to become str8, then u cant do the stuff that makes think of guys, get a gf, like girls, but if there's no attraction then u r who u r like the other guys said, but u can become str8, i used to be str8/curios, mostly bi for a while, i decided i did not like that, and now im just str8. and I LOVE girls, not guys, so well i do. if u have any other ?'s PM me, i will answer, but u rn't born gay, str8 or bi, u become what u want, genetics have nothing to do with it. at all. pick up a wonderful book called the BIBLE, and you will see i am right

You poor mislead thing.

[staying_alive]

I know where you are; I was there once. I deeply resented the feelings I had toward the same sex. Here's a couple things I found helpful.

Hang out with guys. I realized that I didn't have a lot of guy friends; I usually hung around girls. This made me feel even more gay, which made me resent it more. Therefore, I started hanging out with guys more and it became more normal.

If you're bi, enjoy it. You have somewhat of a choice. You could choose to follow one of two paths: men or women. Enjoy the freedom you have by getting to make this choice, because a lot of people don't. Follow what your heart tells you.

Hope it's a phase. It probably is, to tell you the truth. The teenage years are full of people having weird hormones and being attracted to one another. If you let it happen and don't freak out, there's a higher chance it'll pass. Just act normal and don't do anything rash like coming out until you're sure of your sexuality.

Don't worry about it. There's tons of people that are going through the same thing you are, just as I was (and still partially am). It'll either pass or you'll learn to accept it and enjoy your life. PM me if you need someone to talk to about it.

[beedubs]

theres so called "therapy" where you have to pay alot and buy there books and dvds or they wont give you therapy. but its just a scam. Sexuality is not a switch. you dont turn it on and off when you want. the best thing to do is just accept yourself for who you are. if you really are uncomfortable with it you can go talk to a therapist.

[Nelson]

You cant just decide your sexuality based on something.. Its a life choice...

And once you come out, you cant go back in.

[Harley Quinn]

You weren't magically given the "I'm gay/bi" perk. You were born with it, you don't decide one day you'll be gay or bi, it just doesn't work like that. Takes years of figuring it out and a hard time doing that, you can't change it, just accept that your not straight. Trust me I know it's hard, many of us do. You don't "become" what you want, you are already. There's no damn changing that, unless you hide if for the rest o your life which will just cause you pain.

Billy James, I know you're banned but still, being a preacher about the bible and shit, just because it says it's a sin to have sexual relations with another person of the same sex doesn't mean you can't be gay or that you're right. The bible has some flaws, and that's one of them. You can't turn straight by dating a girl when you're attracted to guys because you'll always have the gut feeling somethings wrong, and you'll hate yourself until you actually accept you can't turn straight. Many people have pretended to be straight, it just doesn't work, ever because the feelings aren't right. You can't just stop thinking about the same sex if you're attracted to them. My advice, get your head outta the bible and look into the real world, teaches you a hell of a lot more then a book.

[benja]

i go thought the same! when i was 13 -14 i felt bi(i like guys sexually only but i liked girls i all senses) but then i realized that i wanted to be straight! and so made an effort and tried to change my mind and now im straight.
I dont think that being gay is bad but i didnt want to be gay or bi.You choose want you want in your life i chose to be straight. What you like change as time goes by.. but now i want to be straight.

Roger2121 you can choose your sexually! first is hard to be what you chose cuz you are not used to be what you have chosen.but with time you will become straight trust me if you really want to be straight you will become straight.
what i did was lay aside gay stuff for example, not watching any more gay porn . i ( i was only attracted to guys sexually)

see u!

[cole]

u can't change ur sexuality...it's not a choice, cant' just decide to be straight or bi or gay....ect....

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[Lights]

It's possible. Research the website called NARTH. They "uphold the rights of individuals with unwanted homosexual attraction to receive effective psychological care". **This message is NOT against anyone who choses not to explore the possibility of changing out there** I just want this person to know that it is possible and there are resources that are not religious based.

It's not possible. Treatments which claim they can turn people straight act as a sort of placebo. I did a question in Biology once and it was about the results of people who'd taken a placebo (a pill/substance with nothing in it) and claimed to have reeked the benefits out of the pill they'd never even had. Why? Because their mind wants them to reek those benefits; it's willing them to.

The effect is the same with many treatments like this. People have so much willpower to want to turn straight, that any sort of treatment saying it can turn you straight will make them actually believe they're being turned straight, when in fact nothing's happened at all; they just want it to happen.

Sorry if that didn't make much sense.

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[CaliKid24]

U can't truly turn straight... U can pretend though? But then ur just lying.

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[nick]

Why do you say that someone can not "truly turn straight"? Is that your opinion or is it supported by science?
You can not turn straight. Science has nothing to do with it. You can choose to suppress your sexuality, to live a lie if you want to, that's what these "treatments" are encouraging you to do. But you cant change your sexuality any more than you can change your eye colour. Its just how you are.

[Wtficus]

i lol'd at title. you can't, it's like what hand you write with, you can't choose

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[Haydzzz]

Its not really a thing u can just change mate.

[CantBeTamed]

this is how you were born you can change it you could date girls if you want but if your not physically or emotionally attracted to them and you are physically and emotionally attracted to guys and you refuse to be yourself then your gunna be very unhappy just be yourself