is it wrong to take ur clothes off if not makinglove?

[mollyhart]

:)i wanna stay a virgin until im 18 or till im going2marry but when we had pool parties it felt kind of pleasurable being almost undressed in front of this guy i like so then since then i keep having daydreams about how it would feel to b undressed in front of this cute guy and my friend she said she has undone her bikini in front of her bf - except the have s*x already anyway. :)

[karl]

Well, what do you think? If you take your clothes off in front of a boy, what is he going to think? Are you a prick teaser?

[mollyhart]

Well, what do you think? If you take your clothes off in front of a boy, what is he going to think? Are you a prick teaser?

I just wanted to try it like my friend did. I won't though if its wrong no problem :( im never teasing i just like fun :(

[Bougainvillea]

It may seem alright, but exposing yourself to people like that, will seem suggestive to others.

I don't think you should do it.

[mollyhart]

It may seem alright, but exposing yourself to people like that, will seem suggestive to others.

I don't think you should do it.

not showing others just HIM but ok i dont think i could do it anyway. its cool in my dreams lol lol

[Hottieamy]

No you dont have to have sex with someone to show them what you look like.

[nick]

I dont see anything wrong in it to be honest. If you make it clear to him that its just look and not touch and he is happy with that then fair enough.

[Dechris182]

depends on what signals ur giving the receiver :)

[DayBreakArt]

If you do it remember that it's sending messages to him and possibly other people depending on if/who he tells and if/who you tell. Make sure he knows it's just for looking. You're rather young to be showing off your body to just any guy though. s: just remember every action has a consequence.

[nick]

You're rather young to be showing off your body to just any guy though. s: just remember every action has a consequence.
Actually I hadnt noticed your age, DayBreakArt is right. Take care, and remember guys can be very horny and randy and things could easily get out of hand.

[mollyhart]

Actually I hadnt noticed your age, DayBreakArt is right. Take care, and remember guys can be very horny and randy and things could easily get out of hand.

K maybe i could ask this dude online , i can learn if hes cool with it :cool:

[mollyhart]

If you do it remember that it's sending messages to him and possibly other people depending on if/who he tells and if/who you tell. Make sure he knows it's just for looking. You're rather young to be showing off your body to just any guy though. s: just remember every action has a consequence.

I dont want him to sleep with me, so yeah maybe its a bad idea if its the wrong signals :)

[maczed]

it's not wrong, i do it all the time lol

[mollyhart]

it's not wrong, i do it all the time lol

Oh ok lol cool , well i've had a guy tutor at home and i wore a tshirt + panties lol cos thats what i wear at home normally anyway.

[AllieBama]

it's not wrong or anything, but you'll have to exhibit an incredible amount of sexual control (for yourself and him, cuz we all know 99% of guys have a one-track mind lmao). if i were you, i prob wouldn't do that just yet, cuz one thing will lead to another and before ya even know it, you two will be goin at it lol.....if you do decide to make out naked, then you need to discuss clear boundaries with the guy BEFORE you get naked!!

[mollyhart]

it's not wrong or anything, but you'll have to exhibit an incredible amount of sexual control (for yourself and him, cuz we all know 99% of guys have a one-track mind lmao). if i were you, i prob wouldn't do that just yet, cuz one thing will lead to another and before ya even know it, you two will be goin at it lol.....if you do decide to make out naked, then you need to discuss clear boundaries with the guy BEFORE you get naked!!

Ive promised mum ill stay a virgin till married/engaged , so i guess ill just keep my clothes on and just wear no underwear under my dress or something fun but not as risky :wub:

[AllieBama]

Ive promised mum ill stay a virgin till married/engaged , so i guess ill just keep my clothes on and just wear no underwear under my dress or something fun but not as risky :wub:

Yea, that's prob the wisest choice....once you get to know him better and he (possibly) becomes your bf, yall can do more "risky" stuff as long as he understands the rules :P

How old is he, if ya don't mind me asking????

[mollyhart]

Yea, that's prob the wisest choice....once you get to know him better and he (possibly) becomes your bf, yall can do more "risky" stuff as long as he understands the rules :P

How old is he, if ya don't mind me asking????

He'z 2 years older and i he taught me tennis after school :wub: he touched my underwear and we kissed in tennis :) feels serious :wub:

[AllieBama]

He'z 2 years older and i he taught me tennis after school :wub: he touched my underwear and we kissed in tennis :) feels serious :wub:

awwww, cute :P try to take it slow though......remember, boys will be boys :lol:

[mollyhart]

awwww, cute :P try to take it slow though......remember, boys will be boys :lol:

yep for tennis im wearing regular underwear not strings even though i liked strings in 2010 so far, i wear 2009 underwear now cos his hands :yeah:

[aykancv]

It can turn on your bf and he may be angry to you when you dont want sex after turning on him

[mollyhart]

It can turn on your bf and he may be angry to you when you dont want sex after turning on him

good points for sure i think its true if theyre into s3x anyways :cool:

[shellyj]

Whatever ur comfortable with.

[User Name]

Wow you're actually younger than I thought. If he's two years older than you then he's 15? He's probably seriously thinking about "doing it" while you, probably are not?

If you do choose to show yourself off, then things might get out of hand. But as a guy I'm going to say that I wouldn't be upset if you just wanted to take off your clothes and not really do anything. Just make sure he's mature.

[mollyhart]

Wow you're actually younger than I thought. If he's two years older than you then he's 15? He's probably seriously thinking about "doing it" while you, probably are not?

If you do choose to show yourself off, then things might get out of hand. But as a guy I'm going to say that I wouldn't be upset if you just wanted to take off your clothes and not really do anything. Just make sure he's mature.

I like to keep my virginity as i promised mum. My new plan is to go in the pool with him and during kissing he can undo my top its cool and safe :wub:

[Asdfqwe]

I think that that is perfectly fine, if that is something that you are comfertable with-- do it My opinion is that if you want to show yourself, no matter what age, it is fine. The only other thing is his comfort.

[GeneralCrash70]

My ex-gf and I, when we used to do stuff together, we were usually naked. We would start out almost fully dressed, then in the course of like an hour we'd end up naked, bu the most we ever did to each other was oral sex... So I don't think it's bad...

[mollyhart]

does oral include kissing nipples? i only hear about "69" when people talk about "oral" and i feel scared of that.

[GeneralCrash70]

does oral include kissing nipples? i only hear about "69" when people talk about "oral" and i feel scared of that.

Not technically, kissing nipples is "second base"... Oral sex has to do with fellatio(girl to guy) and cunninglingus(guy to girl), so it's the kissing/licking/sucking of the penis or vagina... 69 is just a position of oral sex where the two participants perform oral sex on one another at the same time with their heads directed toward one anothers' feet...

[mollyhart]

Not technically, kissing nipples is "second base"... Oral sex has to do with fellatio(girl to guy) and cunninglingus(guy to girl), so it's the kissing/licking/sucking of the penis or vagina... 69 is just a position of oral sex where the two participants perform oral sex on one another at the same time with their heads directed toward one anothers' feet...

OK then i guess kissing ni**les is more like foreplay.

[gothamgirl]

keep allus girls posted

[mollyhart]

keep allus girls posted

My boyfriend:wub: kissed all around my triangles but his friend was there :cool: so i didnt wanna show my body so my triangles stayed on but he still kissed my side boobs which is pretty fun to feel lips there :yes: really overwelmingly nice :) im pretty confident now for sure.

[Hanyo]

My boyfriend:wub: kissed all around my triangles but his friend was there :cool: so i didnt wanna show my body so my triangles stayed on but he still kissed my side boobs which is pretty fun to feel lips there :yes: really overwelmingly nice :) im pretty confident now for sure.


Molly, of course it feels way nice, all of "those" types of activities will, as long as you're both loving and gentle about it.

You should be careful though. The more you explore, the more you'll both want to go a little further. Even if you tell yourself, "I won't go any farther than this..." eventually you will.

Ask yourself honestly, if your bf's friend hadn't been around, wouldn't you have liked for your bf to have kissed you "under the triangles"? Then when you realized that feels EVEN more nicer, wouldn't you be curious about what's next?

That kind of playing with your bf will always escalate. If you want to wait till you're married before you do it, which I think is really admirable, it would be better for you to stop that kind of fun completely.

If your bf really loves you, he will understand and agree that its for the good of your relationship. If he dumps you over it, well, you just found out he wasn't that great. But, just know there's tons of awesome and hot guys out there that WILL love you for real, and will respect and value you even more specifically because you chose to be good and stuck to your values. Maybe your bf is one of them...

[DeEnd]

It's a personal choice. And it depends upon what you mean by "is it wrong". But if you don't want to have sex before marriage, it could be hard to stop things from happening once you are naked and your boyfriend is there and probably very eager. It's probably best to only show what you want played with. IF you want to stay a virgin, and not get touched at all, don't get naked. IF you want to do everything but, you'll have to be naked. Think abotu it.

[patrick99]

I just wanted to try it like my friend did. I won't though if its wrong no problem :( im never teasing i just like fun :(

well if ur in to the word of God like me. You do this ur going to get pregnet posibly if your body cant take pregnacy when giving bird the uturs will stay flat. But back to topic ur going to teppt him.

[kendre010]

Well, yea. If you guys want to learn more about eachother in that way. Just becuase you guys would be naked doesn't mean you have to have sex. You guys could judt explore eachother I guess. Create experiments?

[Sasha]

Might not be a good idea

[1_21Guns]

please do not bump old threads. :locked: