Thinking about family

[Oli1994]

Hi

is this wrong at all?

I'm 15 years old - 16in august. And my cousain is 15 also . But 2 months older than me

she is on my dads side of the family and lives 2 hours from my house so my family rarely goes upto visit

I'm sure u can tell where this is going!

Anyway I find her really hot and a few months ago we went swimming and seing her in her bikini made me like :o

had dreams and thoughts of kissing her and seeing her naked etc etc

Is this wrong? Like - it's not like my sister or amything and on dads side of family

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also had any problems like this?

[fystr]

physically, it's not wrong to have urges. it's a natural thing. she is a girl after all. i would guess most people would say it's morally or religiously wrong but i'm not like that. even though she's not your sister, it's still a close relation. just think about it is probably the best answer.

[Oli1994]

That the thing with this close relation thing

my dads, sisters, daughters, daughter lol

[karl]

This topic has come up a few times recently. The law in your country may be different, but in the UK you can marry your first cousin.

[Oli1994]

Well I'm from the UK so :p

[nick]

This topic has come up a few times recently. The law in your country may be different, but in the UK you can marry your first cousin.
That's correct, its also true in very many other countries. In the USA the situation is much more confused, it depends which state you live in. In some states sex with a cousin is regarded as incest and in others its not. As a brit myself I'm fine with it, its not regarded as wrong here and she's just another girl.

[CuriousDestruction]

is it wrong to have these urges? no. that's puberty. is it wrong to act on them? really depends where you are coming from. as stated above ^^, some places call it incest, others don't. personally, i'm just gonna advise you to think very carefully about the impact it would have on your family if you act on these urges.

[steve1234]

Dont worry. I think most people have strange thoughts which they keep to themselves. And liking your cousin isn't too wrong.

[bob skull]

most people have a relative they are sexually attracted to,they just wont admit it because of the taboo.i too have a incredibly sexy cousin on my fathers side who is one year older than me and i mean drop dead gorgeous :D
theres nothing wrong with how you feel towards her :)

hope i helped

[Mei-Cindy]

I think it's perfectly normal to feel that way. I've had feelings like that before, and they're almost unavoidable. And I get so tired of people, (especially Americans) immediately talking about what the law says about everything. We're people with feelings, not robots. And we're also a country with too damned many laws.

[Oli1994]

Ok thanks guys :)