Kissing, really nervous...

[cooldude123]

Hello again.

Okay, i dont have long so im going to the point.

I have been with my girlfriend a few weeks, and going strong. Haven't had a single problem, and i haven't loved anybody else like i do her. However, i simple dont know how and when to kiss her. I have spoken to her saying im nervous and everything as she is understanding. However, it still hasen't 'happened'. Should i just go for it, as i think she wouldn't react badly.

Thanks.

[Scarface]

Here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=13855)
This may able to help you with part of your problem. Just go in for it. take a risk, but remember don't be aggressive just ease into the kiss. I think she will really like that. I hope everything works out for you man.:cool:

[firesoul73]

well you don't just want to rush into it she'll then break up with you or something just take your time and if ur so open to talking to her ask her if she feels she wants to or something

[staying_alive]

Dude, I have definitely been there. ANd let me tell you, as good as it feels to talk to her about it, it only makes things more awkward. It's like exposing the elephant in the room, so now every time you're alone it'll be awkward.

Get comfortable, get rid of any fears of being a bad kisser, and just do it. I prefer lying down instead of standing up, but that's a personal preference. It helps if you're watching a movie or something else so the fact that you're not kissing isn't obvious. She'll like it no matter what, so just go for it!

[nick]

When you feel the moment is right just go for it. Dont expect to kiss her face off first time, start with a sort of exploratory quick kiss, then build up to longer as your confidence grows. To be honest I wouldnt bother too much reading instructions in a quick guide, do what feels natural and learn from each other. And remember, you're not unique, everyone is nervous first time.

[Forbidden Lover]

You will have the first kiss eventually. Nothing to worry or get upset about.

[beedubs]

just tell her "im new at this" and take the plundge. you have to start somewhere and if she loves you she wouldnt care about how you kiss, especially your first time. my first kiss was with a whore (no offence to you whores out there :P) and i was scared cuz she kissed alot of people. you just gotta go for it.

[Duskofdawn]

heh, it's that time when you're talking and she doesn't expect it at all and you're thinking "It's now or never" then just lean over and plant it, man. Good luck ~Dusk

[Hollywood]

I don't reccomend the "sneak attack". I just believe that would scare her into thinking you do things without discussing. Just talk to her first and ask her what she thinks. It never hurts to ask, but if she says yes, go for it. If not, don't get bummed and maybe ask her again in a few weeks.

Best of luck.

[staying_alive]

heh, it's that time when you're talking and she doesn't expect it at all and you're thinking "It's now or never" then just lean over and plant it, man. Good luck ~Dusk

DONT do this. She'll be caught off guard and it has the possibility of getting awkward really fast. Once you've experienced kissing together first, then move on to the random "sneak attack" type.

[PatrickZii]

You kind of...figure it out as you go. In fact, that's half the fun!

[Trackstar29]

Just go for it, dont be shy lol