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[Close102]

Usually I know what to do about problems with girls but this one has me stumped so maybe someone out there can help me out a bit. There is this girl that I've know (as in known her name but not really talked to her) for 2 almost 3 years now and have had a massive crush on her for several months. Whenever I'm around her we are constantly flirting with each other, even my friends say that I'm flirting with her and vice-versa. I've asked her out twice, once to a dance at my school (we go to different schools but live in the same town) and the second was to go see a movie. Both times she seemed quite eager and excited to go but in the end both times could not go. The excuse for the dance was that her mom was pissed at her and probably wouldn't let her go. For the movies she said she had track practice (which she told me about ahead of time but said she could definatly skip). My question is how do I know if she is making up excuses not to go out with me because she doesn't want to "hurt me" or something like that or if they are legitimate excuses. They sound legit but I don't know twice in a row could be a coincidence but...

Also any suggestions on what to do next would be helpful/places to go alone with her where it won't be awkward.

Thanks

EDIT: I'm seeing her tomorrow night (Not a date just going someplace where I know I'm going to see her) and I would like to go out with her before summer starts (a few weeks) because I probably won't see her too much over the summer.

[Blood]

Mabye she's just teasing you? Or mabye she actually couldn't make it to the dance or movies.

Ask her out one more time. If she refuses it, I'd take that as a sign that she's not interested in starting a relationship with you.

Hope I helped.

[Hollywood]

The best thing you can do if you want to know for sure is ask her if she was really telling the truth. Tell her you aren't trying to be rude, and that you trust her, but you like her very much and you just want to be sure.

To have two excuses in two dates sounds quite odd, in my opinion. Then again, stuff happens. Like I said before, I can't tell you for sure, and you'll never know for sure either unless you just politely ask her.

But I mean, are you two actually boyfriend/girlfriend or are you just going on "play dates?" If it's the latter, maybe she's just unsure about going out as just friends. Ask her out and things will go smoother.

Hope this helps.