Question/advice

[Kyuubi]

Ok. So where I live there are only two gay guys that I know of and plenty bi guys and girls. The thing is most of the bi people are younger by 4 years and are freshman. I don't find them attractive at all either. The other gay guy is in my grade (senior) and he is so annoying and is a huge bitch.

My family is really religious and flat out hates homosexuals. At least my parents and some other family members do. I came out to only three of my closest friends and my little sister, whom I trust very much. Now that I've finally determined that I'm gay, I want to finally experience being in a relationship with a guy that will actually care about me. There are plenty of good looking guys here but there are few here that really catch my attention and don't know how to approach them or how to find out if they may be bi or Gay.

Also, with that said, most people here are really judgemental and are very biased. I Have never been in an official relationship and would really like to have one but it is so hard to do because of this stupid situation I'm stuck in. Right now, there are 1-2 guys I like and don't know how to approach. Seggestions?

[Kaius]

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[xXWatEvsXxXx]

Well im probably not the best person to be answering this me being a gay 15 year old who isn't 100% out yet, but any way. Since you dont know that many gay people you can always look for groups in your community that might attract older gay people. or go to a club! your probably pretty close to club age.
the two people taht you dont know how to approach, all im going to say is dont start talking to them through the internet (facebook, myspace, AIM, etc.) you wont get anywhere with that, trust me. try starting small talk with them. and let things develop from there.

[CuriousDestruction]

i assume you are a senior if freshman are 4 years younger than you. in that case, and you are going to college, i suggest waiting til then. you meet a LOT of new people there and it's a chance to develop a relationship. if you really can't wait, try hanging out with the guys you like and if they seem to be curious or into you then maybe try asking them out. if they don't, then you might be out of luck and you might wanna go someplace you can find a relationship.

[Uprising]

I agree with Michael, people in college are less biased towards gays and there is a good chance you will find someone that catches your eye. Remember Patience is a Virtue