your ideal partner

[javs262]

well, seeing as i am getting older, i have been thinking a lot about what i want in life (college, career, family, etc.), and i figured out that it's easier to write them down. i decided to share my ideas with you all and i want to see if there are more people like me you can mention what ever you want in here, maybe learn something about what the other gender may like or not.

hair: i do not care about the color, but the style i prefer is straight hair. if they can make curly work, then cool...

height: has to be = or < my height... if you did not get that then i meant, equal to or less than.

body: visible muscles = gross... i like skinny girls, curves are okay, as long as they are in the right places. i do not like overweight people, that is my personal opinion because... just no.... breasts, at least a C cup. a pretty smile never hurt

eyes: i like something like hazel or green :)

Personality: has to be somebody i can talk to about ANYTHING. id like her to trust me and have her tell me whether or not she trusts me. she has to be able to understand that i have other friends and that i may talk to them about more serious things than i will talk to her. funny is nice, but truthful is nicer. i like smart, i hate constant questions and having to explain myself more than at least 2 times.if she can tell me what bothers her about me, and actually show that she wants to fix it, then I'm good :) i can get a little jealous, like if she gets too playful with another guy and they touch each other and stuff. must be able to like me even with my demon hair (bed head) or when i dont straighten my hair, or when im wearing my glasses.

other factors: i do not like people who drink or do drugs. if they have a smoke every now and then, then its just what ever, but if they choose habits over me, or risk getting in big trouble to have puff, then i will get pretty upset. im pretty straight edge, so i dont do any of that stuff. i hate sassy chicks who talk all super ghetto and get in peoples faces, thats a no-no to me. when people ask me whether looks or personality are more important, i go with looks - i believe that if you have a good personality, then you will like to match and make your looks equally as good. ticklish girls are always adorable. can be herself around me and doesnt feel like she HAS to impress me. does not pressure me to do anything i am uncomfortable with.

more factors: i do not like gingers... somebody who can take care of me when i am sick or down, that is great :) my most favorite text i have ever received was a reply to when i told her that when im sick, i just stay in bed and sleep 75% of the time, she replied "then i will be right next to you when you wake up :)" that text just totally knocked me out. i like girls who are comfortable being around me where ever we go, like out in public or at our parents house. i like loyalty, but if she ditches her plans with friends to spend time with me then i will get upset, because i would like her friends to like me and i dont want to be the dick who takes their friend away. HYGIENE IS IMPORTANT!

maybe i forgot something?: somebody who knows what they want in life and are actually working towards getting to that goal. i hate gold diggers.

romantic things are sweet :) cuddling = awesome. goodnight/good morning texts = just as awesome. cute hand-drawn pictures = life.



so, i am pretty sure that is all that i like... for your sake, i may have left some minor details out. i might edit this and put some more stuff up if i think of anything. maybe the next post i make will be things you find un-attractive

[jimmy mac]

ive been lucky and have met my dream partner in emma, shes beautiful,funny,smart,caring,honest and loves me, i love her to pieces

[Kaius]

Gen puberty :arrow2: Relationships and dating

Tbh im going to say the same as Jimmy, I've met all I want in a person in my girlfriend. Looks don't really matter to me but with her I got the gorgeous personality and looks to match, i couldn't really want more in a life partner. However if I was to elaborate on what kind of person I like, looks don't matter to me though hygiene is important of course. Personality wise I'd like someone that's easy to talk to, kind, not too quiet but not too loud, shy and doesn't expect me to change for them. It doesn't matter to me if they smoke or drink alcohol, but not too much, but drugs are a straight off no.

[steve1234]

Looks are still quite an important factor for me Im afraid, but it's not too important. The girls I like takes good care of themselves, has good hygiene, is not too skinny or not too fat, and maybe wears a little makeup.

I might find a girl 'fit' from their looks, but I will only ever fancy them if their personality is good as well.
I tend to look for intelligent girls with a sense of humour, wears a smile alot, has a positive outlook on life, usually I like them to be quiet but not too quiet. I DON'T like girls who pretend to be stupid, who are negative all the time, or who make themselves look slutty. I will probably be instantly put off if they smoke or take drugs.

If I got into a relationship, hopefully it would be quite open where if she wants to go out with friends or do something without me, that would be ok, and vice versa.

[Hollywood]

To be honest, I don't even want a partner. I just feel as if I am too young to be worrying about relationships yet. But if I absolutly had to have one to save the world, she would be blonde with blue eyes, shorter than me but not too short, shy, dorky (not like smart dorky but like funny), and a huge hockey fan.

[differentduck]

Cute, funny, kind, honest, cute laugh, nice smile, doesn't care what others think, and beautiful eyes.

Eyes are the first thing I notice in the opposite gender :)

[Jenna.]

I've also been lucky enough to meet my dream partner, Andy. I love him so much, he's more than my boyfriend, he's my best friend. He's the first person I tell stuff to, he's always there for me, he makes me happy and I can't see myself with anyone else. He's perfect for me. Not only in personality but in apperance. =P He has light brown hair (its good cause I don't like blonde guys), blue eyes (♥), & he's tall and strong. My family adores him and so do my other friends. :]

[staying_alive]

Wow you've put a lot of thought into it...my only comment is to have an open mind. Everyone has awesome traits that don't show up until pretty far into a relationship. You could bump into your soul mate tomorrow and not realize it because she's a ginger. Just sayin'.

Anyway, about my personal likes. Personality has to be all that i'm not. Someone that understands me. I HATE getting pranked, or not knowing something that's going on. They have to respect that. I love to cuddle. I love to be close and watch movies and hang out. I need someone I can tell everything to. I don't care if she's into drinking or smoking, but it shouldn't impact our relationship. Plus, drunk sex is always fun.

As for looks, there's just certain things that are...attractive. I like a girl who'll look good in one of my tshirts and look amazing in a dress. She has to keep herself together in public, as i'm one of the people who keeps a very good image. I don't care about the color of their eyes, as long as I can stare into them all day. I like clear skin personally, along with a good control over weight. I'm a firm believer in one taking charge of their weight.

All in all, I have to get to know her first. I won't just jump in head first.

[lipstick_kisses23]

I want someone who is as close to me as possible =]. A lot of people say opposites attract but I really dont find that to be true.

hair: I really like the dark brown hair, but I also like all other types too =]

height: must be taller than me! Im 5 2 1/2

body: i like an athletic build. The person has to be in some kind of shape other than a circle lol, although i dont mind a little pudge =] makes eveything all the warmer :3. My favorite thing would have to be the back muscles though.

eyes: Im a sucker for big beautiful brown eyes but again, i like all other types too =]

Personality: A total spaz. I like someone who isnt afraid to make me laugh in public on a date =]. Someone who's loving, tolerant, and respectful would draw me in too. I like confidence, but i hate cockiness. I'm not a big fan of the ego I've have too much of that and always wind up crying on my mothers lap.

other factors: I dont want someone whos going to ignore me for their friends 24/7. I really dont mind having your friends over all the time but i'd like friday and sunday with you at least... unless Baseball is on and my team is playing (GO PHILLIES!!!!) >=], you can spend as much time as you want with your boys then lol! I think smoking and drinking is very unattractive and i messes up your body in lots of fuzzed up ways! I want my partner to be healthy! You dont have to have money, hell you dont even have to have a fancy car, as long as i know you love me and you want to build a future i'll welcome you with an open heart and arms <3

[Trackstar29]

I want my girl to be cute, smart, know how to carry her self, know how to treat a man, athletic, ill find my dream girl one day