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The Harlequin
May 5th, 2010, 05:09 PM
Okay, so about a year ago I was happy. I had three best friends who I could completely rely on for support and visa versa, I felt secure, and didn't give a damn about what people thought because I had my best mates to back me up.

I start Sixth Form. One of my mates suddenly tells me he's moving to the other side of the country, one of them quits the Sixth Form entirely (and being in none of his lessons anymore, we grew apart) and the other I never see anymore, because our band didn't work out and I quit the drama group he was in for a more competitive one.

As a result, I now feel alone...
Like ~ stupidly alone.

I don't have anyone I can trust, I get along with people but I rarely see people or go out and just hang out anymore. I don't know what to do, I'm tired of being completely friendless, I try to be a nice guy but I just feel completely disposable...

Please help.
I need to feel appreciated for a change, rather than just walked all over...

Hollywood
May 5th, 2010, 07:21 PM
Sometimes you just have to wait. Trustworthy people don't just fall from the sky, but you'll run across more eventually.

Just keep talking to people, soon enough, you'll find someone else you can trust. There's really nothing else you can do but wait, sorry to say. Don't change who you are just so you don't get walked on. No matter what you act like, someone will treat you badly, so it's better to just be yourself.

Don't beat yourself up because of it, it's not your fault. And if you need someone to talk to, you can always PM me.

Hope this helps you.

The Madness.
May 5th, 2010, 07:58 PM
Tyler almost said it all.

Keep trying to talk to people.

YOu'll eventually find someone that has a good time with you.

And you'll get a friend.

Kahn
May 5th, 2010, 09:24 PM
Make them appreciate you. Not by force, and not by rudeness, but by friendship. I know this is what you've been trying to do, but stop trying to be so kind and relate to the person you are trying to make contact with. Just because your best friend or mate moved doesn't mean you have to be lonely, but it mean that you need to strive for new friendship. Maybe when you are in class sit down next to someone and try to start conversation. If they are not interested, then leave the alone.

Basically what I am saying is be outgoing and make yourself known. It will help a lot trust me. If you're known (Positively) throughout your educational institute you will most likely be able to make friends. Do not let the leave of two friends drag you down, let it bring you up. Let it help you learn from new situations, and let it provide a way to strive for the good. Set new goals to obtain friendships, or maybe begin speaking to the one that has basically left for no reason.

Don't worry. Making friends is another part of life that we all have to experience. Good luck.

~Adam

BUENA
May 6th, 2010, 07:33 PM
I kinda know how you feel...if you want to talk...we can share our experiences and that might help the both of us??? PM me if you want

MELL-AHH-KNEE
May 6th, 2010, 08:45 PM
well you just gotta be patient, as the other ppl have said to you previously you just need to wait, just talk to ppl make friends, rome wasnt built in a day. a beautiful can grow from a tiny seed.