How to tell a girl you like her?

[The Red Devil]

Okay, so I've known this girl since 8th grade and I liked her then but i thought i had moved on. Now im in 10th grade.. we're just friends but i really want to tell her that I like her, and want to ask her out.

I've never asked a girl out before (i have tried but always been to cowardly to do it) and i have no idea what to say.

Please help? Should i just say something like 'Ive been thinking, I really like you, so do you want to go to the movies this weekend?'

Or, should i ask her to just go to the movies and tell her i like her then?
I asked her if she wanted to come the other week (when i was going with friends) and she said she would but she was busy that weekend.

[Paladino]

Sit down with her and talk about it, thats what I done with the girl I like now we are in a relationship, she might even like you back, youll never know until you tell her so just go for it mate.

[NeedyTeen]

One, just be straight forward with her. Take her aside, and tell you something like " I think you're really sweet [however u feel about her] and I've liked you for a while now" and see her reaction. you should know what to do from there.

don't take too long to ask her, i hate that lol.

Good luck!

[The Red Devil]

alright thanks guys, btw the title is supposed to be a girl lol

[The Red Devil]

Well i didnt get a chance to ask, so any more suggestions will be greatly appreciated

[Hollywood]

Well, really all you can do is what everyone else has said. Pull her aside, and tell her "We've known each other for a while now, and I really like you." It shouldn't be too hard if you are friends.

Don't take her to the movies before you go out and then tell her, I think that would be too sudden for her to make a desicion.

Hope everything works out.

[differentduck]

If you Two are truely friends then it wont hurt anything, or make it awkward.

Best of luck :)

[The Red Devil]

Alright cool, ill try it thanks

[OhMightyLion]

talk to her on messeger and when she ask what your doing tell he ryour with a friend or cousin and a t some point say you BRB ( you can say your going to the bathroom or kitchen or whatev) then you "friend or cousin" will type " ok, im back. I have something to say..I really like you,etc." and depend son her reaction you either say "that was my stupid cousin or friend" or "that was really me, glad you feel the same way"

[michaelhoffman]

Think about what you want to say, and consider when, where and how you're going to say it. Choose your timing with care. Wait until the right moment. Don't blurt out your feelings in the middle of a crowded room or when she's rushing out the door. Consider the direct approach, such as, "You know, I really like spending time with you. In fact, I really like you...."

[User Name]

talk to her on messeger and when she ask what your doing tell he ryour with a friend or cousin and a t some point say you BRB ( you can say your going to the bathroom or kitchen or whatev) then you "friend or cousin" will type " ok, im back. I have something to say..I really like you,etc." and depend son her reaction you either say "that was my stupid cousin or friend" or "that was really me, glad you feel the same way"

If you try that and end up having to use the "Lolz that was my cousin!" then you're going to feel like the biggest idiot ever.

[Trackstar29]

You just have to be straight up, and tell her how u really feel about her

[Hollywood]

talk to her on messeger and when she ask what your doing tell he ryour with a friend or cousin and a t some point say you BRB ( you can say your going to the bathroom or kitchen or whatev) then you "friend or cousin" will type " ok, im back. I have something to say..I really like you,etc." and depend son her reaction you either say "that was my stupid cousin or friend" or "that was really me, glad you feel the same way"

Weasling out of it isn't good at all, especially like this. With things involving relationships, you have to be truthful. If you can't deal with rejection or a little awkwardness between friends, then it will be difficult to have any relationships at all. Like I said, be straightforward, and if she says no, then just shrug it off. Once again, best of luck.

[scuba steve]

If you where a Mc Donalds burger, i'd call you Mc Gorgeous

[OhMightyLion]

Weasling out of it isn't good at all, especially like this. With things involving relationships, you have to be truthful. If you can't deal with rejection or a little awkwardness between friends, then it will be difficult to have any relationships at all. Like I said, be straightforward, and if she says no, then just shrug it off. Once again, best of luck.

WOAH, thanks.. I'll keep this in mind for the future.



(and No, I'm NOT being sarcastic...)

[dmeek7]

i've learned from my own experience, that girls dont care if you like them or not. they still will be your friend. so just tell her is my opinion. just come out with it. OR....slide into it. ask her who she likes. tell her you will tell her who you like if she tells you. then tell her

[tjjaidaa]

Flirt with her alittle and watch her body language, see if shes doing the same with you, because then it might be that she is feeling you too. Otherwise make it known that you like her without saying it just yet, do nice things for her, act like if it was a girl your dating and getting to know.

[scuba steve]

claim her as your own by sticking gum in her hair

[Truth]

I like a girl, she's my bestfriend. I just straight out told her, it's not awkward, she just knows that I do. She doesn't like me back, but that's fine with me.

[RazzaB]

Dude, if you really are paranoid about saying "I want you". Get her msn say it on that, but if you're confident to ask in real life. Do it with 2 lass and 2 lads, flirt with her. (Tickling works a dream when flirting) and when it comes to the end of the day just say "You're a nice lass, and I'd like to get to know you more will you go out with me". Just look her deep in the eye and say it. If he pupils increase in size it most likley means she likes the idea of it. And you'll be on your way.

Goodluck bud'

-R.