just plain confused

[Mitch14]

Hey, im probably gonna rant. youve been warned.

so heres the deal. im in gr 8, im 14. and i think im in love with my best friend. shes amazing, but she likes about 5 other guys. ive asked her out, she said no, but she still likes me and that things could change at the dance. Our school dance btw. Ive been the "nice guy" all my life. ive respected them, treated them right, and then well lets just call him M, is a total jerk to her and she likes him. the worst part is all my friends think she is a total bitch. help

[Frankenstein's Bride]

It's a shame that your friend's have turned on her. I'm guessing they turned on her becuz she hurt you? in any case they're hurting you more than her. When you're 14, your fancies are so changeable and everything's so ott and dramatic. Trust me i remember me and my friends lol. She'll realise that she fancies you at some point but it'll be a question of whether you can be bothered with her drama any more.

[Scarface]

If you like her that much you could try again at the dance. If your friends disapprove of her, but you don't have to stop liking her. If she doesn't treat you with respect or have the same feelings for you, remember there are plenty more girls out there that will like you for who you are. There will be plenty more opportunities to be with girls just make sure she likes you too. Just be yourself and follow your gut. Good luck man

[Hollywood]

If you like her that much you could try again at the dance. If your friends disapprove of her, but you don't have to stop liking her. If she doesn't treat you with respect or have the same feelings for you, remember there are plenty more girls out there that will like you for who you are. There will be plenty more opportunities to be with girls just make sure she likes you too. Just be yourself and follow your gut. Good luck man

I agree with Ronnie. Don't let your friends determine who you love, they have no say in who you go out with. If she says there may be a chance, defiantly go for it, but if it turns out that she just doesn't want a relationship with you, don't get bummed out. Just enjoy being friends and maybe some day you will be able to have a relationship with her. Don't wait up for her though, if you see someone else you want to go out with, go for it.

Best of luck to you.

[Mitch14]

thanks evryone, but now i know i screwd up, she said no at the dance, so i was bummed out for a bit, then i went and danced with my friends, and i ended up grinding with her friend, so now shes pissed at me and all my friends are happy, so i apologised to her and now my friends are mad, i dont know what to do :what:

[AllieBama]

Well it sounds like you're being a better friend to her than she is to you. You shouldn't have to apologize for dancing with someone. Just do whatever feels right to you, don't worry about what your friends think. If they are truly your friends, they'll be happy that you're happy.....so just be happy!!! Anyways, girls can be fickle (yes I admit it lol). She might be mad with you tonight, but in a couple days it'll be water under the bridge, so I wouldn't worry bout it.

[Trackstar29]

Just do you, and if she has a problem with her and just let her know how u feel

[Mitch14]

well, her and i are now goin out