no gaming after 10pm?! she can fuck off.

[1_21Guns]

she doesnt get it.
not one bit.
yeah, its only sims or whatever, but i need that fucking thing to keep my stress levels down, i need it to escape.
but no. she decides because i have exams in 2 weeks, i'm not allowed on it after 10. i usually come off the damn things at 11 anyway.
i'm about 5 minutes away from deciding to fuck it and cut. but i cant. because i cant get away with it.
i'm sick of this, i'm sick of her. she gets stupid ideas in her head.
i know she's right, and that i should come off them.
but i need them. it sounds completely sad.
but i seriously fucking need it. :(

[dead]

I've had similar situations. I don't think its sad, but I really don't know whats best to do in this kind of situation. If theres anything else you can do thats safe and relives stress that would most likely be the best thing todo.

[CaptainObvious]

I used to fight with my mother about playing video games late at night ALL the time. Almost every night. I don't know what advice I can give you because that was about the only thing my mother and I never came to agreement on - the only thing that stopped it happening was when I graduated HS and was no longer living at home during school time. When I was in HS, I always pretended to be asleep when I wanted to game at night. Yes, this was my one big dysfunctional issue. :P

[Inconvenience]

u're fuckin selfish and u have got no fuckin right to talk about ur mother with words like "she can fuck off" u little rude thing ;)

[scuba steve]

well you could always find a good book.... who am i fuckin kiddin, but did you know it's illegal to play video games after 10pm in South Korea!!!

that must be so shit i couldn't live without some late night video games. do you have like a DS or something as you can sneak that in your back pocket or whatever and there's a couple of decent Sims games on that :)

[dead]

u're fuckin selfish and u have got no fuckin right to talk about ur mother with words like "she can fuck off" u little rude thing ;)

And you can't spell.

[1_21Guns]

I've had similar situations. I don't think its sad, but I really don't know whats best to do in this kind of situation. If theres anything else you can do thats safe and relives stress that would most likely be the best thing todo.

there is, but nothing else really works. i'm just going to be more anxious because i know i can't play on it.

I used to fight with my mother about playing video games late at night ALL the time. Almost every night. I don't know what advice I can give you because that was about the only thing my mother and I never came to agreement on - the only thing that stopped it happening was when I graduated HS and was no longer living at home during school time. When I was in HS, I always pretended to be asleep when I wanted to game at night. Yes, this was my one big dysfunctional issue. :P

i shouldnt even be online right now, i already come back on my laptop when im ment to be sleeping :P

well you could always find a good book.... who am i fuckin kiddin, but did you know it's illegal to play video games after 10pm in South Korea!!!

that must be so shit i couldn't live without some late night video games. do you have like a DS or something as you can sneak that in your back pocket or whatever and there's a couple of decent Sims games on that :)

yeah there is, but i dunno its not the same XD, i'll find a way around it :P

[Hollywood]

You shouldn't let a stupid game get in the way of your relationship with your mother. Telling your own mother to fuck off is just insane, and it's disrespectful as well.

I understand that games are a way for you to relieve stress, but still, you have no right to talk about your mother like that. There's plenty of other things you can do, like reading or watching TV.

I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm just saying, don't be mean to your Mom. Remember, some people don't even have moms.

[1_21Guns]

You shouldn't let a stupid game get in the way of your relationship with your mother. Telling your own mother to fuck off is just insane, and it's disrespectful as well.

I understand that games are a way for you to relieve stress, but still, you have no right to talk about your mother like that. There's plenty of other things you can do, like reading or watching TV.

I'm not trying to be mean, but I'm just saying, don't be mean to your Mom. Remember, some people don't even have moms.

i understand what you mean, however without fully understanding how she treats me, nobody can say much. and nobody fully understands that, but i guess that's my own fault.
perhaps there is other things i can do. but i don't want to do those things, i've been gaming for years for the same reason. nothing else works anymore.
some people cant have children, so doesnt that make it not right for her emotional abuse? doesn't that mean she shouldnt call me delusional and whatever else?

[Hollywood]

i understand what you mean, however without fully understanding how she treats me, nobody can say much. and nobody fully understands that, but i guess that's my own fault.
perhaps there is other things i can do. but i don't want to do those things, i've been gaming for years for the same reason. nothing else works anymore.
some people cant have children, so doesnt that make it not right for her emotional abuse? doesn't that mean she shouldnt call me delusional and whatever else?

Well, I wasn't talking about how she treats you. Yes, it is wrong for her to be emotionally bashing you, and I'm sorry that's the case. But she's your mother, there's not much you can do about it. You still have to show her respect, even if she treats you badly, because she's still your mother.

Trust me, I understand that gaming is a big stress reliever, I play a lot of games myself. The only part of your entire post that fired me up was telling your mom to fuck off, so I just wanted to say that I believed it was wrong. Nonetheless, I hope things work out for you, and that you'll regain your privlages soon.

[Kaius]

u're fuckin selfish and u have got no fuckin right to talk about ur mother with words like "she can fuck off" u little rude thing ;)

If you have nothing positive to contribute to the matter then please don't post.

Honestly, video games are the worst thing to use for reducing your stress levels at night. The best thing to do in this case if you feel you need them is to sit down with your mum and talk to her about it. Come to an agreement of a time limit for the video games and then leave it for the night. This way you still get to play and she's still effectively getting what she wants.

I know how you mean, my mum and dad are the same when it comes to my xbox/laptop. I hate coming off it but at the end of the day they only want whats best for me, its the same in your position im assuming.

[1_21Guns]

Well, I wasn't talking about how she treats you. Yes, it is wrong for her to be emotionally bashing you, and I'm sorry that's the case. But she's your mother, there's not much you can do about it. You still have to show her respect, even if she treats you badly, because she's still your mother.

Trust me, I understand that gaming is a big stress reliever, I play a lot of games myself. The only part of your entire post that fired me up was telling your mom to fuck off, so I just wanted to say that I believed it was wrong. Nonetheless, I hope things work out for you, and that you'll regain your privlages soon.

ok, i understand most people would get annoyed at someone telling thier mother to fuck off. i assure you though, i didn't actually say that to her, nor would i dream of. i was just irritated more than anything at the time.

If you have nothing positive to contribute to the matter then please don't post.

Honestly, video games are the worst thing to use for reducing your stress levels at night. The best thing to do in this case if you feel you need them is to sit down with your mum and talk to her about it. Come to an agreement of a time limit for the video games and then leave it for the night. This way you still get to play and she's still effectively getting what she wants.

I know how you mean, my mum and dad are the same when it comes to my xbox/laptop. I hate coming off it but at the end of the day they only want whats best for me, its the same in your position im assuming.

i know they're the worst thing to reduce stress, but its a habit i've had for years. my mum said if my sleep doesnt get better then it can go back to the way it was, but maybe it is for the best.

[Asylum]

i know it seems bad.. trust me i'm goign with the similar sitaution. paretns right at 10 they come into my room take my labtopp, thye take the house phne, and they have the phone company shut off my phone so i can't communicate with anyone. lights out by 11. the only thing i can do is read, listen to music (low) and i guess draw if there is any paper... and if i get into an arguement i'm nto aloud tohave cell phone for a week. this means if they say soemthing mean or accuse me, i can't defend myself without getting my phone taken away. yes it sucsk...... i'm not going to lie.. they took away destractions that help me not cut.. and they knew what they did because i tlaked to them about it. but look on the bright side. the computer supposedly wkaes you up, this makes it harder to get sleep, so maybe you could go to bed early. they may seem like they are horrible dictators, but they do what they do out of love, even if we don't see it. my parents aren't the nicest of people to me either... but they still care.. hun its just a game find somehting else to do. just accept the thigns you cannot change and change the things you can. and have the wisdom to knwo the difference. video games, tv, computer, electronics i no way to get off stress with. this will make it worse also cause some anxety nd intensify the feeling of not being there (like it's ard to explain the feeling you get when you hallucinate or thing you aren't really there). i know its really hard not to get upset by all of this... but tryto stay positive don't go in thinking she is doing this because she hates me... hse odens't love me she never does... because that will make htings worse... go into it with an open mind.
you are setting yourself up for failure you are already saying "i've been doing gaming for years and nothign else works." now i'm sure you haven't tried everything xp. for stress listen to soft music, take deep breathes, do yoga, exercise, hit a pillow, bite a pillow, drinking hot tea works, sometimes pouring ocld water on you head works (yes the idea is to get yurself cold and wet, so you focus on just that) drawling (however if you a perfectionist odn't do this.. umm reading a book (this escapes your own life and goes into the charcters (try Mists of Avalon, great book)), writing poetry, a short story, taking pics of yourself, anything you like to do that is considered fun do it. however isnce it is near bedtime nothign that will cause you to stay up, unless of course you want ot. when you are anxious focus on things in your room. yes on the stupid obvious things. i see a lamp, it's white tall, i see a stuffed pink pig. if you start to feel numb start feeling things touching them, try to remeber how they feel, see what they look like. this odens't mean you have to start strocking walls and such, it coudl be as little as a movement by playing wiht your hair, fixing your hsirt, washing hands with ocld water, the things above for stress also can bring you back. feeling the covers of yoru sheets, no it is no right for her to emotionally abuse you, but that is life... people will hurt people when they are upset, not purpseofully all the time, but it happens, its best to forgve, and know htat they still lvoe you, and move on.
like you said exams are in 2 weeks. they may not seem important to you, but this is what will change your grade for better or for worse... this is major improtance to do well, to get into a good college. now i don't mean to stress you out more by what i said. however look here... see your mom is limitiing it so you can study more because she wants you to get int oa good college and get a good job and etc. she wants you to have a good life, and she is helpng you. i knwo itseems horible. my parents did those thoings for me to get sleep... hahahaa i still odn't go to sleep until 3, but at least i'm lying down nd resting. this isn't of course my resistence rebelous teenage self being a rebel, this is simply i can't go to sleep. and it's really not so bad its a video game in the end... and well no need to go scar yourself because you can't play a video game.. you don't need video games, you can find soemthing else. something that works for you. and the video game restirciton isn't forever right? look in two weeks you'll probably get your time back. just hang out until then hun. PM me if you need me hope i helped at all :)

[Hollywood]

ok, i understand most people would get annoyed at someone telling thier mother to fuck off. i assure you though, i didn't actually say that to her, nor would i dream of. i was just irritated more than anything at the time.

Alright, I understand that you were just mad, and trying to let off some steam. I'm glad you did, I'm just warning you not to say that to your mom. I hope everything works out.

[1_21Guns]

Alright, I understand that you were just mad, and trying to let off some steam. I'm glad you did, I'm just warning you not to say that to your mom. I hope everything works out.

believe me, i wouldn't dream of it.
thank you.

[The Madness.]

Try to find a way to get the stress down another way.
2 weeks won't be that long away.
Don't cut.

[1_21Guns]

wouldn't be that bad if it was only 2 weeks, but it's not, she wants to keep it up till my exams are finished. thats a few months at the least...

[Norton]

that sux