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yankeefan7723
May 2nd, 2010, 11:43 AM
So me and my new gf are going out this weekend for our first date. It's cool and all, but where should I take her? I have tons of ideas but I'm not sure what is right. She suggested the movies and there is a movie I want to see, however I want a low pressure situation. Not something where we're stuck in a theatre for 2 hours and we have the typical "date at the movies" stereotype. For example you take her to see a horror flick, she gets scared and she jumps into your arms. Or you see a romantic movie and you make out for 2 hours. I like comedy and I don't think comedy would fit in to that stereotype. I want to take things slow. It's been quite a while since my last gf and tbh I'm a bit nervous. I just want to feel things out and slowly dip in to the shallow end if that makes any sense.

What are some good date ideas that will keep us focused on just having fun and being with each other instead of being together in an awkward moment where I'm asking myself if and when I should kiss her and she's asking herself when I'm going to make the move. That takes our minds of the date itself and kinda leaves us frustrated. BTW, we haven't had our first kiss. I kinda just want to kiss her at the end of the night. It's a nerves issue.

LoveMe_HateMe
May 2nd, 2010, 12:10 PM
Why don't you, if they weather is nice, go hang out at a park some where and just chill out?

However, I see your point on the whole move thing but even though it may not be the ideal place, it'll give you a distraction if your conversation isnt goig anywhere. You could also go for a walk after at a park or somewhere and kiss or whatever :) That's what me and my boyf did on our first date and it turned out really well :D

Either way hope this helps you and good luck! ^_^

Atonement
May 2nd, 2010, 12:11 PM
I like bike rides. I suggest taking a bike ride with her and maybe stopping somewhere for something. Maybe bike to an ice cream shop. This is very low pressure, just bike, mess around, go get a snack, etc. Very relaxed.

eltomo
May 2nd, 2010, 04:49 PM
Go to a park or something. Maybe a place she would enjoy.