locker room for public swim

[wolfbird_94]

Ok, So I went Swimming today. when the swim was over We had to change and all the little kids walked in and Took off their Trunks and I was Like dont look dont look. So There's One change thing if you shy. To which I am sadly. I Feel even more shy when my Sibling is there also. Did this happen to u? How did you solve it? I built up the confence to do so... but with the Little kids. I didn't feel like it! Just to add. My Bother is Shy too!

[Severus Snape]

Its understandable. Just don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. I used to be shy in lockerrooms but it wore off relatively quick. Err on the side of your own discretion

[tonks12]

It's completely normal to be shy.... just change how you want to.

[coopie.mac94]

i probab;y wouldnt mind changing, but if ur shy, thats ok too

[nick]

We have too many hangups about nudity in my opnion, its a perfectly natural state to be in and nothing to be shy of or ashamed about. Having a group of younger kids wouldnt bother me, they're just kids, no need to look at them if you dont want, and if you do see them that doesnt mean you're eyeing them up or thinking about them sexually.

[ahmann7]

I think it is normal to be shy...

[adamwest]

just do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable

[labird]

its normal to be shy. i was very shy too, but little by little I became more comfortable with being naked in front of others. it took some time but i always thought they are guys too.

[jimmy mac]

im comfortable being naked, i always have been, doesnt bother me who i get naked in front of. but everybodys different, theres nothing wrong with being shy

[Trackstar29]

I would prolly never get naked in front of my friends,so i guess im shy lol

[SAMwich]

I'm shy getting changed for P.E. and I don't even have to fully undress so I doubt I'd be ok with fully undressing publically! If you're shy that's fine.

[Trackstar29]

Ive never got naked in front of people before, and if i did i would do it really quick so nobody could look

[wolfbird_94]

I think if I want to Advode being seen my My brother I will just Change Before hand or When He's in the Change stall I will just Change.

[jaydawg729]

i never swam but when i had to change for pe i always wore an under shirt and long boxers

[Hockeyplayer1]

The first few times were extremely hard. But then you realize its no big deal unless you make it. Just do what you need to do and go.

[ilove..pie]

yea if you dont like it dont do it im also very shy

[ray8806]

We have too many hangups about nudity in my opnion, its a perfectly natural state to be in and nothing to be shy of or ashamed about. Having a group of younger kids wouldnt bother me, they're just kids, no need to look at them if you dont want, and if you do see them that doesnt mean you're eyeing them up or thinking about them sexually.

I agree with Nick here. Nudity is too 'obstructed' by today's society. There is nothing wrong with it. You're only changing, not rubbing up against each other. I've gotten nude in front of my friends while changing many times. I'm used to it.

[HillBillyWilly]

Little kids arent usually sexual people (they don't really care if others look at their penis or not) so if you are with 3,4 year old, i don't think its much of a problem unless you really feel uncomfortable

[BlackBetty]

There isnt a reason to be shy infrontnof skall children, and long as there were no litle girls around. I hjghly doubt that any of the kids would say anything about your penis, etc.

It wouldnt bother me at all, just do what your in there to do and leave. Simple as that.

[Djlogout]

just dont do any thing uncomfortable

[datbaseballboy24]

lol, how old was the sibling?

[Giles]

It's fine to be shy when around anyone, whether they be older or younger (or siblings). Being naked around people isn't a common occurrence in modern society, so it's natural for young people to not be accustomed to it.

I used to be extremely shy, regardless of age. I was always Ok with family though, strangely. Gradually, as I started going swimming more regularly, I grew more confident being naked around strangers.

[chilldude]

im not sure how to defonally do it, but you could try walking around naked at home when you are alone for a while and then one day just do it...it doesnt really matter though, im sure there are guys bigger than you and defonally some smaller.