View Full Version : Help me please!!!!!
Tanner
April 30th, 2010, 05:31 PM
Ok, so, last night i had my friend sleep over, my like homophobe friend. So he was on my ipod and typed in "g" for google, and saw a gay porn site D:. Sohe was like "WTF, ARE YOU QUEER!" i was like what? But he said all this shit and like i was like i either have a virus or someone got on it. So i dony think he believed me, but he slept closer to me than he usually does, and like idkk. But today he was like touching me , blah blah blah, so i dont know what to do! I need help, i think he might be like curious or smthing, im not sure, ughhh :( please help me!:what:
Mr. Smithers
April 30th, 2010, 05:35 PM
Puberty For Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality
It's possible that he was curious. Maybe he was just experimenting with you. If your uncomfortable with him touching you, then you should tell him to stop if you are not okay with it.
Trackstar29
May 4th, 2010, 03:44 PM
He acts like a homophobe because he may not want people to know
that hes curious. So maybe you should talk to him about it and ask him
if he has ever did anything like this,you never know u may have a person to
experiment with xD
JAY94
May 5th, 2010, 09:26 AM
If you are happy with him touching you then let him.
May be worth asking why he is touching you - as you do not want him trying it on just so that you prove you like guys (if you do).
If you do not like him touching you then you must tell him to STOP.
Would be worth talking to him about stuff to see where he is coming from??
madman
May 5th, 2010, 01:04 PM
well i think of it in 2 ways, either he is unsure about his own sexuality and is curious now he thinks you might be gay/bi or hes trying to get you to do something that would prove to him that you are/are not gay bi yourself
karl
May 5th, 2010, 01:34 PM
Seeing as you denied knowledge of the gay porn site, he may be setting a trap for you, to find out if you're gay. Wouldn't do any harm to talk to him about it. No need to admit you are, until you're sure of his motives.
BUENA
May 7th, 2010, 09:39 PM
Just ask him straight out why he is touching you. and move on from there.
guacamole24
May 7th, 2010, 10:18 PM
Seeing as you denied knowledge of the gay porn site, he may be setting a trap for you, to find out if you're gay. Wouldn't do any harm to talk to him about it. No need to admit you are, until you're sure of his motives.
I agree. He might be trying you.
CuriousDestruction
May 8th, 2010, 04:05 AM
really depends how well you know him. could he accept you are gay? if not, you may just wanna let it go and not do anything until he says something.
ThomasB.
May 17th, 2010, 05:42 PM
Yeah, some of my friends are like that. Some are proper homophobes, others faking it because they want to fit in. I know from experience that some "in the closet" gay people do that to hide their sexuality, because one of my friends came out to me but continues to act homophobic. But then I do agree with the others, he may be trying to humiliate you. If it does bother you though, just tell him to back off and get a grip :P
sam i am
May 17th, 2010, 06:23 PM
He probably acts homophobic so noone will know hes curious,etc tell him how u feel . Don't get into something u dont wanna do
Rmilance987
July 8th, 2014, 10:14 AM
if you ask me tell him to back off
ImCoolBeans
July 8th, 2014, 12:45 PM
Please don't bump old threads, this is four years old. :locked:
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