girlfriend

[zombieahh]

I've never had a girlfriend I'm 14 i have low self esteem and am a little overweight i wanted to know how you all ask someone out and do you think i should if had a gf already?

[LIsailer19]

ok, first off, you shouldnt post in one forum and then post the same question in a different forum. (this was posted in relationships and puberty, it belongs in relationships)

second, dont worry, i'm a litte overweight, 15, and have only had one g/f. you're completley normal and have nothing to worry about. in terms of asking someone out, dont just go up to someone and be like "will you go out with me." get to know them and then when the timing is right, then ask them out. good luck. :D

[bluemonick]

Also it's good to know that person a little bit before you just bluntly ask the person out. Gives them a chance to say yes. :)

[zombieahh]

i know not to just ask them out but i mean when the times right what should i say?

[MoveAlong]

"Hey, umm Terissa, like, wanna hang out sumtime?"

:D Hello there, I'm Donnie :cowboy:

It's intemidating trying to ask somebody to go out with you. But, just remember, if you don't do it but really wanted to do it, you'll regret it more than if you got turned down.

The thing that's most people's block is asking the person. They just freeze up! Puke it if you have to, in order to get a chance.

Try to catch her at her locker or something, and ask her out. Just say will ya go out with me, or something like "You wanna go get an ice cream after school?"
It's really that easy XD Just catch her at a time that you know she's in a good mood, and when she's not around alot of her friends. It might embarass her more than you!

And you shouldn't worry about not having a girlfriend yet, it takes time for some people.
Good luck, feel free to ask more :)

[LIsailer19]

yea, just be like "do you wanna see a movie friday or something?" just dont flat out say "will you go out with me?" thats coming on a little too strong and she may be taken aback. just be causual with it and you'll do fine. :D

[lacrosse24]

yeah movies on fridays is probably the best way to start. or having lunch with her, just dont get her bored or have it quiet the whole time, keep her interested

[mr_smite1]

Movies r gr8 aswell because its quiet dark, and sometimes thee movie can b quite loud........