Could use some advice :p

[spikeye]

Ok, so I'll try and explain this as shortly as possible.

I'm a male, 16 years old in Grade 11

Over the past year I am almost completely skinny and well fit, my look has drastically improved, my teeth are white, Since my acne pretty much disappeared I finally look really Good. I'm well dressed from shoes, to grey jeans, to good shirt and jacket, good haircut.

Anyway I was in Math class and there's this guy I'm good friends with called Adam. He has a girl that sits beside him named Taryn. I sit in one row in front of them.

Quite often when I looked at Adam and Taryn. She could not help but smile and Adam for some reason would hide behind her (don't know why)

I would smile back and a few weeks up to now, something awesome happened.

One of the boys said: "Taryn wants to have sex with you". During class and her row and the row I sit in heard it as well.

I just turned around and smiled at her, it was the only thing I could do.

After a while I looked back and Adam and Taryn held up their Math book and Taryn had a drawing of a heart on it and Adam said it was me on there.

Later on I heard Taryn say: "I'm afraid of talking to him" "Will you talk to him?" she asked Adam.

Adam said "sure, I'll talk to him"

Then I came home from school.

I really like Taryn and was nervous and excited when I heard she wants me.

I'm going to be as open as possible tommorow so that Adam will have a chance to talk to me.

I'm going to tell him that I like her and im interested in fucking her.

Was just wondering what advice you could have so I don't mess it up in anyway.

I forgot to mention that Im still a Virgin so it means a lot to me. It made my whole day happy to hear that. I have one condom in my backpack and Im hoping everything goes smoothly.

Since I only see Taryn and Adam at math class it's going to be difficult to have private conversations in class.

Thanks :)

[Cloud]

I'm going to tell him that I like her and im interested in fucking her.
well arent you the charmer.
you want shit to go smoothly
dont hook up just for sex
thats really all that needs to be said

[Kitty Purry]

^^^^ I think that says it! :D

[spikeye]

Alright, thanks guys, any advice or hints on where we might end up doing it? I'm hoping at my place or hers.

[Aspiringanonymous]

Alright, thanks guys, any advice or hints on where we might end up doing it? I'm hoping at my place or hers.
We're not allowed to give advice like that here, sorry. Just try to relax and let it proceed naturally.

[Zazu]

well arent you the charmer.
you want shit to go smoothly
dont hook up just for sex
thats really all that needs to be said

Qft.

[AgusCO]

I'm going to tell him that I like her and im interested in fucking her.


Ugh, could you at least stay classy while being lustful?
Anyway, I'm not against this, even though you barely know her from what it seems.

[GeneralCrash70]

Git'R'Dunnnnn! Nice score dude... Just make sure you show more interest in har person and not her body... Women are to be respected as people not objects, and safe sex is the only way man! I hope all goes well, but be a gentleman dude, I'm tellin you, if you want a lasting relationship with her, BE A GENTLEMAN!

[spikeye]

Guys, I'm having some problems. It's day 2 and adam hasn't talked to me. I would smile at Taryn and she would smile back. But it does not go any further than that.

We don't talk, we don't see each other outside of math class. I don't know what to do :/

I don't know if she wants to date or go straight to it. Which is why I fear asking her out, especially during class.

It's like the classroom is a godforsaken barrier and I'm not getting any signs on where to go. The only sign I got was the picture of a heart on her textbook to prove she likes me back.

I'm going to talk to her tommorow. I'll try somehow. :/

could use some advice and help!

[AgusCO]

What are you waiting for? I mean, it's not that hard to sit next to her(Unless you are somewhat shy), just be sure to have a lot to talk about because there are only a few things worse than having 2-minutes-talk and to then have nothing to say.Talking to her will get you to understand her(and her interests) better.
Now, as far as the dating/go straight thing. Well, being a girl I'd assume she would like to date, but if you don't want to have a serious relationship with her then you will have to find a way around it to get to what you want, or you may just go the mean/manipulative way and date her, get what you wish and then dump her.
Good luck either way.

[baee]

you shouldn't waste your virginity on someone you don't really care for, i mean...in a way, i did & i def regret it. theres nothing wrong with being a virgin, i'd rather be with a virgin than a whore. oh & you wouldn't get mine by saying your "interested in fucking me" just a tipp =)

[spikeye]

@ AgusCO

We have seating plans and her row is always full. Also I'm not shy I'm actually the opposite of shy, i'm outgoing.

I was in 2 years of drama class working on skits with 4 girls and all the guys and girls in the class literally praised me as a really good actor. It was like being famous in a school environment. And I played 2 and a half years of soccer and was nicknamed steam roller for my ability to not only get the ball but knock the enemy team members down. Was considered Mvp. I also have qualities that make me a leader and I've talked to girls about things that not many ppl are brave enough to do.

I can ask her out for cofee but I don't know if she
likes cofee. If Adam won't talk to me, I'll ask him to talk to me.

@ baee,

Honestly societal pressure and the encouragement of my father, not to mention my desire and the fact i only had 1 girlfriend which was a hot Asian. And I'm a computer expert in some ways :/

[staying_alive]

You seem like you have too much confidence and an answer for everything. Not trying to be mean but you might tone yourself down if you want actual advice for your situation. As a virgin, you're at the mercy of the people on this board telling you how it works (which we're actually not allowed to do in detail...).

FYI, telling her that you are "interested in fucking her" is vulgar and offensive, and it makes you sound ignorant of sex.

Why don't you try getting to know her. It'll work out better in the end and then you can have ALL the sex you want.

[spikeye]

I wasn't going to say I'm interested in fucking her.

You know what nvm.

I have two choices:

1.) Talk with Adam about what to do

2.) Talk to her and lead to the subject of talking outside of class or ask her out. But how can I ask her out in class is beyond me.

[staying_alive]

Alright from your posts it doesn't seem that Adam is much help...

Why don't you just walk up to her, ask her if she wants to go out for coffee sometime, and then be done with it? It's not hard to ask someone out in school.

[Zazu]

@ AgusCO

We have seating plans and her row is always full. Also I'm not shy I'm actually the opposite of shy, i'm outgoing.

I was in 2 years of drama class working on skits with 4 girls and all the guys and girls in the class literally praised me as a really good actor. It was like being famous in a school environment. And I played 2 and a half years of soccer and was nicknamed steam roller for my ability to not only get the ball but knock the enemy team members down. Was considered Mvp. I also have qualities that make me a leader and I've talked to girls about things that not many ppl are brave enough to do.

I can ask her out for cofee but I don't know if she
likes cofee. If Adam won't talk to me, I'll ask him to talk to me.

@ baee,

Honestly societal pressure and the encouragement of my father, not to mention my desire and the fact i only had 1 girlfriend which was a hot Asian. And I'm a computer expert in some ways :/

If this is all in fact genuine, my honest advice is just to ask her out right.

All you're doing now is beating around the bush and coming up with reasons to avoid asking; just bloody go for it or you will never know.

[Harley Quinn]

OP banned, locking.