What do I do? (she cheated)

[LowLife]

I dont know what to do, she said it was only a short kiss but either way she cheated. We've been together almost a year. She's done the exact same thing in the past when her other relationships were "going downhill" I want to forgive her but I cant. I knew the whole time that she had feelings for this new "friend." What should i do?

[Blood]

Tell her that if it happens again you two are over. But not everyone is as cold as me...

So have a conversation with her. Ask her if she thinks your relationship is 'going downhill'. Ask why she did what she did. Mabye you guys can work it through. Just keep in mind that she's done this before.

But whatever happens, I wish you the best.

[staying_alive]

How old are you? If you're in like 8th grade, i'd say just let her go. Not worth it to keep the relationship since it'll probably end anyway, especially if she cheated already.

If you're in high school (or above) I think you need to truly evaluate this girl. If she's had a history of it in the past, we're talking some deep issues here. No one's forcing you to forgive her, and she probably isn't either if i'm being brutally honest.

As teenagers, cheating needs to be taken more lightly. Unfortunately, it's not. Many people take their relationships WAY too seriously. We're all hormone-infused and we all act on things that take no account of our relationship status. HOWEVER. This doesn't sound like what she did here. If she's had a history of it and if you've been suspicious of this guy for a while, then it isn't simply a lust thing. She's had feelings for him and acted on them.

Final verdict: she's not worth it. Move on to someone who is more dedicated to relationships, or enjoy the single life.

[LowLife]

How old are you? If you're in like 8th grade, i'd say just let her go. Not worth it to keep the relationship since it'll probably end anyway, especially if she cheated already.

If you're in high school (or above) I think you need to truly evaluate this girl. If she's had a history of it in the past, we're talking some deep issues here. No one's forcing you to forgive her, and she probably isn't either if i'm being brutally honest.

As teenagers, cheating needs to be taken more lightly. Unfortunately, it's not. Many people take their relationships WAY too seriously. We're all hormone-infused and we all act on things that take no account of our relationship status. HOWEVER. This doesn't sound like what she did here. If she's had a history of it and if you've been suspicious of this guy for a while, then it isn't simply a lust thing. She's had feelings for him and acted on them.

Final verdict: she's not worth it. Move on to someone who is more dedicated to relationships, or enjoy the single life.
shes a senior in high school and im a sophmore. im very mature with relationships

[Hollywood]

If you think she has feelings for this "new friend" then break up with her. But if you don't know that for sure, give her one more chance. She didn't exactly cheat on you if it was just a quick smooch, but nonetheless, it's not right.

Talk to her about it, and ask her what she thinks about it and if she has feelings for him. If she says yes, then that's that. You can't have a relationship with someone who has feelings for someone else.

Good luck.

[Strength]

Dump her.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.