I really don't know what to do.

[Dean 'Lake' Knight]

Umm, well.
I have liked this guy for a while, and at this gig last night, we got to talking, I started crying, and he really comforted me.
We went back into the main hall right by the band, I said I really liked him, and he said he did too. He then kissed me, this was my first kiss, we started talking and he said he knows what I am going through, and he said he was honoured to be my first kiss. He said he liked me too.
And today, I talked to him on msn, and he feels uncomfortable with it, then he said he wants me to forget about it. I started crying (he couldn't see).
Then later I found out that he just asked someone out and that he is going out with her, and now all of a sudden I cannot stop crying. I love him so much, and this has really pushed me over the edge, and now, I am so hurt, and he wants me to be just a friend now, and I cannot ever look at his face, without crying.
I really need some help.
I really do.

[nick]

Dean, that sucks, but he has to make his own choices. But it seems to be that you have gained a friend that knows about your sexuality, is cool with it, and likes you very much. It could be a lot worse. Stay friends, maybe it wont work out with the girl and he will turn back to you again. Love hurts at times, rejection always hurts, but it does get better with time.

[Dean 'Lake' Knight]

I cant even look at him anymore though, without crying.
It is hurting me so much.

[nick]

*hug*

there will be others, believe in yourself. <3

[Dean 'Lake' Knight]

*hug*
Thanks Nick.
I will try and belive in myself.
I just really don't think I can...

[Art_dude]

*hugs all around!!!*

Dude that really does suck :( But I think Nick really nailed it - despite how it feels now, you did get a friend out of this situation who clearly cares for you and understands your situation and your sexuality. Seeing him may cause you pain right now, but in time you'll look at him as the guy who showed you who you really were as a person. Try to give yourself some time to be upset and alone, and move on. I'm not saying you should ignore him, but if the pain is still that raw, you should try to process this by yourself until you feel up for seeing him again. Always remember, there are plenty of other fish in the sea!! :)

[bigsack13]

Umm, well.
I have liked this guy for a while, and at this gig last night, we got to talking, I started crying, and he really comforted me.
We went back into the main hall right by the band, I said I really liked him, and he said he did too. He then kissed me, this was my first kiss, we started talking and he said he knows what I am going through, and he said he was honoured to be my first kiss. He said he liked me too.
And today, I talked to him on msn, and he feels uncomfortable with it, then he said he wants me to forget about it. I started crying (he couldn't see).
Then later I found out that he just asked someone out and that he is going out with her, and now all of a sudden I cannot stop crying. I love him so much, and this has really pushed me over the edge, and now, I am so hurt, and he wants me to be just a friend now, and I cannot ever look at his face, without crying.
I really need some help.
I really do.

If he wants to be with girls you should respect that. And man up - you barely know the guy. Get over it - with this attitude, you won't find true love! He is not worth you, you can do better! Buy icecream, go to a movie, go shopping, and do fun things. Then forget about him and find someone better. Maybe make him jealous. :)

Good luck bro.

[Arantor]

Time will heal almost any wound, Including this one (:

I know exactly what you're going through, except for me it's me liking a girl who has a boyfriend, but I get where your coming from.

I try and talk to her as much as I can, but when she found out I liked her I told her that I understands she is taken and that I will respect that and not cross any boundries. From telling someone that, they not only gain respect for you but they then realize you care about them and want them to be happy.

The point is, respect his choices. There's nothing we can do about it, all we can do is wait and accept what is happening in the present.

Goodluck.

[WasabiCookies]

So, I must say Dean, I went through the EXACT SAME THING with a guy. It hurt me so much, you have no idea. He was also my first kiss.

It sucks to love somebody because they understand you, and then for them to stab you in the back like that. It'll get better, I promise.

WE really can't do anything except wish you luck. I know how you feel buddy, and I hope you get through this.