two girls but one choice

[aussie_chub]

ok listen my girlfriend broke up with me and told me she wasnt ready for a relationship yet but she is still attracted to me and i got pretty cut up by it and just today one of her friends told me she has feelings for me and that my old girlfriend didn't feel this way so me and her are going to the movies on friday night and im unsure of the morale in this situation should i have to waita couple years for the other girl or go witht the outgoing one that has crushed on me for ages.

ps: my old girlfriend was really secretive and never showed any emotion oranything but the new girl is really happy and outgoing + she wants to be with me and i love my old girlfriend but she broke up with me so im unsure please any advice will be given good rep.

[LlamasRus]

All that can be said really is follow you're heart, it's always right. In my personal opinion go with the second girl. The other one dumped you and if she dumped you once she could dump you again. Pm me if you want to talk.

[aussie_chub]

i'm thinking that aswell because i will never have that level of trust in a relationsip with an ex girlfriend

[Kahn]

Try something new, and as the person two posts above me said, follow your heart because you know what is right to do for you. This decision can not be made by me, or anyone close to you. You need to think about it, and bring up all the pros and cons to yourself about what is the best decision for you. It'll make everything better in the end.

As for experiences with ex's, I've had terrible ones. I would like to wish you luck, but luck is not what you need, it is thought.

[Asylum]

you must think... which did i like spending more time with, easier talking to? who do you trust more? also who did you like more, or were more compatible with? these are important keys in a relationship, if you choose someone wth these, the relationship will probably last longer. but as the person above said. follow your heart, however let your mind in on it too, because you can listen to your heart follow it, but if that person hurt you, and you know thye might again it's time to lsiten to your head. stop think... is it worht persuing, then continue. in the end we can not make this decision. only you can. we can't say the first girl is better. we dont' know these girls or your relationship. but i hope what i said helps because i can only imagine what you are going through mentally in this situation and how hard it is. PM me if you want to talk.

[dmeek7]

sounds like to me, you should chose the other girl that isnt your ex. secretive isnt good in a relationship.

[Nicky]

i like the new one, you should too, go for it!

[Jess]

Go for the new one. or just follow your heart

[Hollywood]

I've said it before and I'll say it again. NEVER get back together with an ex. Divorced couples who get remarried almost always get divorced again within the next year. Same goes for relationships. If you guys broke up, then there was obviously a reason for it. Just forget her and move on.

[aussie_chub]

yeah i think ill see how our date goes on friday