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Dramakingdc
April 26th, 2010, 08:12 PM
Is it normal to be afraid to masturbate? I'm 14, and I start to Jack off, but when I feel like I am going to cum, I stop. I'm too afraid to finish. What do I do?

Kinetic
April 26th, 2010, 08:18 PM
jus force yourself to relax and finish it up! i really don't jack off because like you i can't relax. or try a diffrent method?

GeneralCrash70
April 26th, 2010, 08:23 PM
Finish up son! You'll love it! Quit playin around fool! Nah, but seriously it's nuttin to worry about, it feels fuckin awesome when you finish, TRUST ME!

lizzard
April 26th, 2010, 08:27 PM
Its really up to you what to do. If you want to push yourself then go ahead and climax, or dont, but id recommend you do if ur j/o just because i would imagine you might be in pain for having an erection without release

Standard Stick
April 26th, 2010, 11:06 PM
it feels great when you finish

paintballguy
April 26th, 2010, 11:31 PM
i first heard about masturbation at school and i was interested in it. i went home and tried it when i was 13. just go finish it off bro. you will not regret it at all.

LlamasRus
April 27th, 2010, 09:09 AM
I have a friend who had the exact same problem. He didn't want to finish because he said some told him it hurt, and it only really does the first time. After that it feels SO AMAZING!! just force yourself to finish or distract yourself when you feel it comming(no pun intended).

nick
April 27th, 2010, 10:32 AM
I wouldnt say its normal but I doubt if your the only person to ever feel that way. Have you experienced an ejaculation at all - for many guys the inconvenience of wet dreams means wanking is preferable. There really is nothing to be afraid of, if it wasnt so good we wouldnt all be doing it so often. Just psych yourself up sometime, tell yourself you really want to find out what its like, and go for it.

Having said that there is no actual obiligation that you have to masturbate, some guys dont. So if its not for you that's fine, whatever suits you.

Forever.Nandos
April 27th, 2010, 11:33 AM
Delete.

Patchy
April 27th, 2010, 02:02 PM
Yes it is perfectly normal.
It is something new to you and is understandable because you dont know what to expect.

Agreed.

Because the feeling is something strange your not sure if its good or not, this will change over time but you just need to gain confidence.

TheUnknown12345
April 30th, 2010, 08:01 PM
Just go for it. I felt the same way when i first masturbated but at the end it felt good. :)

Quietboy
April 30th, 2010, 08:08 PM
I think everybody is afraid to try something new, but with this, you can't go wrong!

kyler
April 30th, 2010, 08:47 PM
It's ok, if your not comfortable finishing then don't. Just wait til you are ready, it will be worth it when you can do it without guilt just take your time dude.

Rriku113
May 1st, 2010, 01:16 AM
Wha-? Just finish up man it feels great!

michel513
May 1st, 2010, 01:57 AM
Just finish and cum it'll feel good once you cum.

Deandre
May 1st, 2010, 02:25 AM
Finish it! I understand that it will be your first time to shoot but you won't regret it!

The Dark Lord
May 1st, 2010, 05:13 AM
I remember being the same- it feels weird at first but once u get used to it theres no better feeling

josh93
May 1st, 2010, 09:35 AM
well it is normal but just relaxe and let your self cum it aint nothing worng cumming.

Jacob1993
May 1st, 2010, 09:52 PM
Is it normal to be afraid to masturbate? I'm 14, and I start to Jack off, but when I feel like I am going to cum, I stop. I'm too afraid to finish. What do I do?

It is perfectly normal to feel that way. I remember i did the same thing a couple of times before I actually finished all the way for the first time. Just relax and let it happen. There is nothing to be worried about...you will enjoy it :)

Demyx
May 1st, 2010, 10:15 PM
Haha dpnt worry about it! Take it slow. When your ready to "finish your business" go for it!

tonks12
May 2nd, 2010, 12:47 AM
Go for it If you really want to. If not, you don't know what you're missing.

obknobe
May 2nd, 2010, 01:05 AM
Dude you have NO idea what you are missing. Just make up your mind that you are going to finish the job you start no matter what! Look at some different porn or pix and and just don't stop until you cum. You will thank us all the moment it happens and a wonderful new world will open up to you. It did for us and will be an experience you will never forget. No matter how many times you repeat it (and you WILL repeat it and repeat it and repeat it!) Trust us. . . this is a wonderful thing you can make happen and you will be GLAD you did.

Guitarman
May 2nd, 2010, 05:45 AM
WTF your scared to masterbate. Just relax let your inner man come out and go for it.

GamerX20
May 2nd, 2010, 11:04 AM
1 it is like the best feeling in the world and 2 if you do not finish you will get blue balls!!

spaz
May 2nd, 2010, 11:05 AM
just block it out and KEEP ON TRUCKIN XD

ImCoolBeans
May 2nd, 2010, 02:44 PM
it feels really good, and nothing bad can come of it. (pun haha sorry) but whatever floats your boat. no one can make you do anything

adamwest
May 2nd, 2010, 04:18 PM
I use to be the same way when i first started then i just pushed myself and it was worth it. so you should just push yourself to do it.

WaahZombie
May 2nd, 2010, 04:59 PM
just finish..

randomlyonhere
May 2nd, 2010, 05:22 PM
never had this fear

cristian123
May 2nd, 2010, 05:39 PM
dont be afraid, it really feels GREAT!!!! :D