Getting quite annoyed

[maverick18]

Well this is my story

I'm 19 and still a virgin. I can think of nothing else other than losing my virginity before I'm 20 ( as i think i will be considered a social outcast to an extent) I also feel I am considered this now a little.

I really lack confidence when it comes to approaching women. Whether it is being out in a club or out with the friends having a drink. I don't know what it is. I consider myself to be fairly attractive but still never have the confidence.

I somehow feel that losing my virginity will open the doors for me in terms of confidence and I will be able to approach anyone. But it's making this first step in approaching a woman in order to create a relationship.


Please give me some advice or thoughts ony situation.

[Hollywood]

Losing your virginity won't get you anywhere socially. Don't think that, and don't sell yourself out just so you can say "I'm not a virgin." What you do inside of your house is your business, so don't go around telling people about your private life, because they'll always want to know everything.

As for the confidence, I don't have much either, it's not that big of a problem. You don't have to have a girlfriend, I really don't want one, to be honest, but that's just because I'm a loner. When you see the right girl, you'll have the confidence. You're still young, some people don't find "the one" until their 50s. You just have to be patient.

If you want to go out with a girl, just become friends with her first. Get to know her, then you will know if you two are compatable, and you will feel more comfortable asking her out. Do NOT get together with a girl just so you can lose your virginity, that would be a huge mistake you would regret for the rest of your life.

Hope I helped.

[Cronyne]

Do NOT get together with a girl just so you can lose your virginity, that would be a huge mistake you would regret for the rest of your life.



Especially this part.

Especially.

Uuuughhh....

[Baudelaire]

A partner isn't just for sex, I'm a virgin, it may not seem as bad to granted that I'm 15 but I'm willing to wait until I can find a partner that I would love enough to want this with them. To be honest, I think it would make the entire experience just, better. I mean it would be so satisfactory to know the person you did that with cares about you and was after more than just sex.

[aussie_chub]

i did what you want to do and i regret it dearly i got in a one nght stand and now ive losta deep part of me so i would say fuck what the non virgin mates think

[OnTheFritz]

Dont feel that way you want to loose it to someone special!

[Trackstar29]

Like many people losing it isnt a big deal that people make it. Just try to connect with girls more often