Is it him or me?

[Jagster]

Ok, so apparently my boyfriend has developed a new personality. He has Anger/Aggresive, Loving, and now he has Jerk. No. Not the jerk for masturbation, jerk as in he thinks he rules the world. On a different note, When I first saw him walk in the door of the school, he said "Stay away from me."

It's only been 6 days and this relationship is complicated as fuck. Is it his fault or mine for him saying this?

[Kahn]

Do not think it is your fault, for that will just make everything worse. It is his. He is the one acting like this and you have done nothing (That you have said you've done) to cause this behavior. Do you know if your boyfriend is Bi-Polar? That might be the case, for it seems his mood changes rapidly. Maybe he feels he made a mistake dating you? I am not trying to sound harsh, but if he is acting like this for no reason it might be better to let him go.

To answer your question: It is not your fault, and if he continues to act like this I say end the relationship.

[Art_dude]

Do not think it is your fault, for that will just make everything worse. It is his. He is the one acting like this and you have done nothing (That you have said you've done) to cause this behavior. Do you know if your boyfriend is Bi-Polar? That might be the case, for it seems his mood changes rapidly. Maybe he feels he made a mistake dating you? I am not trying to sound harsh, but if he is acting like this for no reason it might be better to let him go.

To answer your question: It is not your fault, and if he continues to act like this I say end the relationship.

Bingo.

When it's been 6 days that you've been going out and it's that fucking complicated, there's something to be said for ending it. Do you think that there's something going on in his life at home that's changing his behaviour? Maybe he's trying to show a 'tough guy front' now that's he's been dating you. He's trying to prove his masculinity about being in a gay relationship by emulating typical prickish-masculine traits like being a jerk, being angry, showing aggression etc. It'd be nice to have more background info, but that's all I can guess from what you told us. I hope things pan out for you.

[Jagster]

@Mr. Bubbles: He's not bi. If it was a mistake for dating me, then why was it him who asked me out in the first place?

@Art_dude: His mom says his home life is great. I even talked to his dad and he says my *coughEXcough* boyfriend is showing a new attitude to try and get himself moved to Olympia.

[DrkZ90]

ALL, or at least most families look like they are doing great and stuff... in fact, if you saw me and my family on an average day, you'd hardly get a hint of how bad I'd probably be feeling, or of anything going wrong for that matter... you never know what might be actually going on between his parents and him...

There's something that made him turn 180 on his attitude, and that can only mean some serious personal issue or struggle, or, a mental problem like bi-polar or something like that that would make him get those fast mood swings...

Try to approach him carefully and slowly, and ask him what's wrong?

[Hollywood]

@Mr. Bubbles: He's not bi. If it was a mistake for dating me, then why was it him who asked me out in the first place?

@Art_dude: His mom says his home life is great. I even talked to his dad and he says my *coughEXcough* boyfriend is showing a new attitude to try and get himself moved to Olympia.

Does this mean you broke up with him?

Dealing with people with anger issues due to complications can be difficult, but sometimes you just can't ignore being yelled at for no reason constantly. I say give him another chance, and if you haven't already, break up with him. Just because he has complications dosn't mean you can easily cope with it.

[Jagster]

Does this mean you broke up with him?

Dealing with people with anger issues due to complications can be difficult, but sometimes you just can't ignore being yelled at for no reason constantly. I say give him another chance, and if you haven't already, break up with him. Just because he has complications dosn't mean you can easily cope with it.

Pfft. Not like I can give him a second chance. And I'll restate this, -He wants me to stay away from him.-

[Hollywood]

Pfft. Not like I can give him a second chance. And I'll restate this, -He wants me to stay away from him.-

Well, if you don't want to be in a relationship with him, then break up. That's the best way to handle it if you don't want to give him a second chance.

[Jagster]

We've already been broken up for like 9 days now.

[MaKaylaLoraine]

It's probably him.....He's probably confused just like you are about the situation he could be confused about his sexual orientation or having family issue's try talking to him and don't give up on him