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The Batman
April 26th, 2010, 05:12 AM
So for the past 8 days I've been staying over my cousin's house(the same one i use to live with). I don't really like it here but I know my mom doesn't want me at home anymore. She tries to convince people to get me to move in with them, and when we talked a few days ago she told me thank you and said that she's enjoying me being away and to stay as long as I want. I want to go home but I can't go where I'm not wanted or to a house that no one cares about me at. Every time I think about it I fight back the tears because the only thing that makes me cry every time is arguing with my mom. I've only lived with her for the past 9 months and it seems everywhere I turn she's got another reason to yell or bitch at me and if i say anything back she threatens to kick me out. I really don't know what to do next I just need somewhere to stay until January when I transfer to either a school to an out of state school.
Gumleaf
April 26th, 2010, 07:37 AM
i understand how hard this must be for you dude. i can't speak from personal experience, but i can from seeing other peoples experiences. sometimes people get along better when they don't live together. that goes for parent/parent and for parent/child relationships. although it is clearly not ideal for you tom, and i really feel for you, for the sake of a happy relationship with your mother into the future, living away from home might be the best move even if it looks like the most horrible move possible to you. i hope things turn out the best they possibly can for you tom.
Kahn
April 26th, 2010, 02:45 PM
I don't know why anyone wouldn't want you in their house Thomas. From what I know of you, you are a great guy. We talk almost everyday, and I know of these problems. Maybe it is time to get away from your mother, and I know you want to go back but it may not be the case. At your age it is time to get out of the house and get your own place. I know you are going to go to Tiffin in the near future, but maybe your Mom has had enough. You are awesome, but even parents need breaks. At least you still communicate. I know you'll get through this Thomas, and I'll be here for you to help in anyway possible.
The Batman
May 1st, 2010, 02:23 PM
I decided to go home today since I need to get things ready for when I find a new school. Also, I decided to move to Ohio for school and gain some independence.
Kahn
May 1st, 2010, 09:39 PM
I decided to go home today since I need to get things ready for when I find a new school. Also, I decided to move to Ohio for school and gain some independence.
And I can't wait.
BUENA
May 6th, 2010, 06:59 PM
Maybe it soon time to move on from your mom? Sometimes time can strengthen a relationship. first make a positive mark in you mothers heart. and then leave. through your absence her heart might want you back. and if/when you do come back...you might come back to her heart like a flame, streaming and wanting more????
you make the decision.
you know better than most what is best
best of luck
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