Is this really normal?

[luv2cheer]

In the showers after gym all the girls are always playing around like spanking each other and stuff. The other day when i bent over to get my towel a girl jammed her finger up my butt. They are always touching my vagina and once hid my towel and clothes and said they wouldnt give them back til i performed 30 seconds of oral sex on one of them. After I did it they gave me my shirt and skirt but not my panties. i had to spend the rest of the day in a short skirt with no panties. continued in next post

I talked to my female cheerleading coach and she said thats just what girls do (i left out the oral sex part due to embarassment). im not the only one this happens to. but they all seem to like the fingering spanking and licking each other. i told them i didnt like it, and they just keep doing it. is this normal for teen girls in the shower?

Please don't double post, we have an edit button for a reason - Kaius

[Inconvenience]

no it's not normal and they all sound kinda perverted little sluts :|

idk what advise to give but all i know is it's not normal :|

[luv2cheer]

They really are perverted sluts they seem to do it all for fun. it's borderline rape

[RadioPlayer]

This can be considered sexual harassment or sexual abuse. If it's really making you unconformable, you should tell a counselor at school (about everything, including the oral sex) or tell your parents.

[ashley97]

you should definatly tell someone if it makes u uncomfortable, they shouldnt do that

[NeedyTeen]

Tell someone. This is not normal, esp. if you don't accept.

[YouKnowWho]

No! It's sexual assault! Being forced to do oral sex is command rape. They absolutely should not be doing this to you!

[luv2cheer]

Yeah I guess i dont want to accuse anybody of rape because i could of told an adult before i did the oral. but because i was naked and did not want the teach to see me and honestly a little curious i just did it.

[sara1220]

Sounds like you go to school with a bunch of lesbians.... but either way thats weird & not normal at all!!!!!!!! you should tell your cheerleading coach or another adult again & tell her that it bothers you....

[CanYouSeeMe]

We play around at school like that with each other, but not with girls who don't want to. You should take it to a higher authority to stop it.

[YouKnowWho]

It's understandable, it's a serious charge, but you're not the only person who's going to be made uncomfortable. Just take the first step, it's hard but if you just do it then the first step is over and then you can make a difference.

[luv2cheer]

Yeah i know its just although they did not know this i was kind of excited and wanted to do it. She was an attractive girl and I was really curious.

[solosarah]

how many people involved? I got to an all girls school and one year here was a similar experience with a girl in a grade or 2 higher then me. It didn't go well when she reported them, there parents had much more pull, the girl who was assaulted ended up getting sued for messing with the other chicks "character" and kicked out of school.

[Oli1994]

Don't you girls wear any clothing in the showers ?

[Mystic]

That's horrible and very wrong, you definitely should tell someone.

[honeybear]

after our swim practice at school alot of the girls play around in the shower...while we dont make anyone do anything they dont want to it is still fun...especially if the swim coach (who is female) isnt around

[The Madman]

That can be classed as sexual assault and its really not normal.

You should tell a lot of people

[rydeath123]

thats rape you should tell some one again or do it again if you enjoy it

[sandman17]

ok well i'm guessing the spanking thing could be just messing around, but everything else is just wrong, you need to get that reported to someone.
sorry for being in the girls section too :s

[TheFame]

WTF the girls finger eachother?!? :o
Thats like...ew wtf.

Thats rape.

[HillBillyWilly]

ok well i'm guessing the spanking thing could be just messing around, but everything else is just wrong, you need to get that reported to someone.
sorry for being in the girls section too :s

On that note i've seen guys spank each other and act gay to be funnywhile getting changed.


but the oral sex thing is probably a form of rape.

[DayBreakArt]

Well, I'm not quite sure what to think. You said you didn't want to do the oral, then you say you did. Make up your mind woman! We cant help you if you're switching back and forth between wanting it and not wanting it. I'd advise that you tell someone if you don't like the touching.

[maczed]

we do the same thing at my school but only with girls who want to

[Close102]

A little fooling around is normal but this . . . idk. Just to point out, I don't know how old any of the girls are but regardless of whether you liked it or not if any of the girls are over 18 it's statutory rape.

[lipstick_kisses23]

IDK girl... maybe you should have a one on one with the girls who did that to you (not talk to them while youre in a group. single them out one by one and then talk) and ask why they did it. If you did like it tell them not to be so crel about it and if you didnt tell em not to ever touch yo again

[AllieBama]

if any of the girls are over 18 it's statutory rape.

Legally, it depends on state laws (or country laws if you're outside The States).....but yea it is rape for the mere fact that they did that stuff without consent from you. I would DEFINITELY tell someone.....teacher, school counselor, admin, nurse.....they will all know what the next step is and can help you out! I mean this is pretty dang serious, not only is it a violation of your rights and your body, but you could actually catch something (STI) from one of these girls (who are obviously VERY sexually active)

[shellyj]

report it if they made you do something you didn't want to.

[ipod444]

WTF the girls finger eachother?!? :o
Thats like...ew wtf.

Thats rape.

i agree. this is definatly not something to joke about. IT IS RAPE! IT IS AGAINST THE LAW!

[luv2cheer]

Well, I'm not quite sure what to think. You said you didn't want to do the oral, then you say you did. Make up your mind woman! We cant help you if you're switching back and forth between wanting it and not wanting it. I'd advise that you tell someone if you don't like the touching.

Actually I never didn't want to do the oral, they just didn't know i wanted to. I actually really liked giving her head, she was really hot, I think shes straight but i'd eat her out anyday. I guess it's not so much about telling someone anymore, I'm begining to think I'm a lesbian(I like eating girls out WAY to much for a straight girl) and have actually started to enjoy this. Sex with the hottest girls in school everyday, im just gonna go with the flow and enjoy the show! Thank you so much for your concern everybody, i really apreciate it.

[Zeh Crazy]

No. No, that's not normal. I suggest talking to your parents (mom preferbaly) and having her bring it up to the principal/coach or something. That'd be easier, so you wouldn't have to be embarrassed about it.

[Bridgett]

thts not normal. the most they do at my school is unhook the back of ur bra or pants u in the gym be4 any teachers come

[SmileyGirl]

ok well i'm guessing the spanking thing could be just messing around, but everything else is just wrong, you need to get that reported to someone.
sorry for being in the girls section too :s

Agreed. Maybe the spanking is ok but that's iffy too.

You should probably report that and ask to change classes...

[Hanyo]

Actually I never didn't want to do the oral, they just didn't know i wanted to. I actually really liked giving her head, she was really hot, I think shes straight but i'd eat her out anyday. I guess it's not so much about telling someone anymore, I'm begining to think I'm a lesbian(I like eating girls out WAY to much for a straight girl) and have actually started to enjoy this. Sex with the hottest girls in school everyday, im just gonna go with the flow and enjoy the show! Thank you so much for your concern everybody, i really apreciate it.

Luv2cheer/Emily, I agree with most of the comments here, its definitely not normal, and if they're doing it to anyone who doesn't want it, that IS sexual assault.

Ok, so you've decided that you like it and want more... just know that you're taking some risks (as someone mentioned with stds) and please be careful that as you participate you don't become a bully or rapist yourself. It would be better for you to not participate, but if you're sure you want to, please consider others who might not want to and stand up for them so that nobody is forced to do anything they don't want to and nobody gets touched at all that doesn't want to.

[luv2cheer]

Luv2cheer/Emily, I agree with most of the comments here, its definitely not normal, and if they're doing it to anyone who doesn't want it, that IS sexual assault.

Ok, so you've decided that you like it and want more... just know that you're taking some risks (as someone mentioned with stds) and please be careful that as you participate you don't become a bully or rapist yourself. It would be better for you to not participate, but if you're sure you want to, please consider others who might not want to and stand up for them so that nobody is forced to do anything they don't want to and nobody gets touched at all that doesn't want to.

I dont do any bullying I just let them do all this stuff to me. I find it pretty funny all these "straight girls" are pretty much having full on lesbian sex with a lesbian. lol

[buzzerer]

just be careful that you're not being manipulated. a sexual relationship where they're making you do things can be unhealthy.

[emt.Cam]

Please read the posts she has made. She is content with the actions and -from my review- won't be telling anyone, as she is "comfortable" with what happened. No more posts are necessary.