Ended friendship after 13 years. (Rantish)

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

So my ex-best friend of 13 yars has just informed me today that I have been calling her fat (which I NEVER have done) and have been acting "annoying" be defending the little pride and self istem I have left. We planed to go to college together and be each others maids of Honor when we got married. She ended our friendship because she started an agruement with me when she was PMSing. I apologized many times to her even though I do not belive I did any thing wornge. She said I looked fat, I used a bit of sarcasm and said can't you see I am fat. She threatened to hit me and said that was not nice. She stormed out after that.

[derkderpderp]

shewt dude,that sucks.ok why not just wait it out.
And see if she wants to apologise for acting like a turd.
Or you can be rid of her,13 years is a helluva long time,and for a 'best friend' to get all pissy (whether she was pmsing or not) is an unimaginable act.
I say-forget her.
However im not you,i didnt experience the 13 years you experienced with her,so its up to you.
However,you could wait for her to apologise,and make sure she does.
And then if you become friends again make sure she knows she hurt you.

[Kahn]

Try to amend your relationship with her. There is nothing better you can do than this. Try to reason with her, for it could make you guys realize that what you are doing is ridiculous. If you have been friends for 13 years, she would not disown you like that. I'm sorry to hear a simple fight can break up such a lasting relationship. You certainly deserve better.

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

Try to amend your relationship with her. There is nothing better you can do than this. Try to reason with her, for it could make you guys realize that what you are doing is ridiculous. If you have been friends for 13 years, she would not disown you like that. I'm sorry to hear a simple fight can break up such a lasting relationship. You certainly deserve better.

I have been trying to reason with her, she called me out to the class because I was doing my work and not participating in the group. And started to yell at me for doing what I was sopossed to do.

[Kahn]

I have been trying to reason with her, she called me out to the class because I was doing my work and not participating in the group. And started to yell at me for doing what I was sopossed to do.

Then she is being the immature one. You are doing everything right, if you're being truly honest, and you should have nothing to worry about. Friends have fights, and people grow from this kind of experience. Maybe it was just time for you to part ways.

[sum1got2]

As much as you don't want to hear this- just give her time to cool off. She'll come around. Meanwhile, spread your wings! Find new friends! Sometimes we have to be thrown out alone in order to find cooler, more awesome people. I truly hope it ends up okay <3 I think it will.

[Gumleaf]

that really sucks hun. you must be crushed. but don't give up on things yet. i've had experiences where best friends have suddenly gone all weird on me like that, so i can't promise things will get better, but i think with the long history you have with her things have a better chance of being ok. i suggest giving her some space and give her time to calm down. the chances are it may not even be you thats the problem, something is happening in her life and she is having trouble dealing with it. regardless though, most importantly don't give up on things ok. all is not lost.

[belfordrocks]

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[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

We sit next to eat other in a few classes :(

[The Madness.]

Wait a while for you two to get some space.
Sometimes some time apart from each other can be good.
Then try to have a reasonable conversation with her.

[BUENA]

Thats sad maybe you should wait it out?

[MELL-AHH-KNEE]

well maybe there was something else bothering her at the time and then that happened between you, give her time asnd she'll come round and things will be okay, if not then maybe its for the best, but deep down she knows she still loves you and always will.

[OnceMoreWithFeeling]

Why went on a feild trip to Organ Rigde for a arts festival to help voulenter with the special needs kids at or school. She was really nice to me then and friendly but when we got back to school she stoped. I have no idea what is going on.