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Blazin
April 25th, 2010, 01:02 PM
Hey Virtual Teen members, im having some trouble and have come to you for some advice. So basically im having trouble getting a girlfriend, it seemed easy in like 8th and 9th grade but now im doing something wrong, im not sure.

So basically, I seem to be getting to the "friend stage" with the girls I like. I have no problem keeping a conversation going but I guess im having the wrong type of conversation with her because it just leads into the friend stage. Can anyone provide me with some advice on how to get a date/girlfriend without going to the friend stage?

Hollywood
April 26th, 2010, 09:34 PM
Well, that's the best way to get a girlfriend. Just blatantly asking a girl out without even knowing her well will lead to an early break up. You can't really skip that stage.

Like I've said before, you don't absolutly need a relationship. You may think you do, but relationships aren't important in the teenage years. Just wait a while, don't get yourself caught up in all of that yet.

There's nothing wrong with being just friends, but if you meet one that you think you may like, you just have to ask her if she thinks you two would work out. There's really no other healthy way to do it.

Hope I helped.

Nicky
April 27th, 2010, 05:02 PM
get enough friends that are girls then you will find one that doesnt want to be friends..
the friend zone isnt a good place to be haha..

Blood
April 27th, 2010, 06:38 PM
the friend zone isnt a good place to be haha..

Why do you say that?

Jmac
April 27th, 2010, 09:03 PM
Ya the friend zone is a good zone u need to stay in it u can't just skip becuse u don't lie that zone u need to know something about her
but now I need help I have this friend and today I was huging her I like her so much and one of our friends pushed me when we were huging and. I kind of humped her but she did not care like she enjoyed it but what should I do stay In the friend zone or ask her out any help

Dog Desab
April 27th, 2010, 09:49 PM
haha humping her... but its always good to be in the friend zone but its really hard to find the one thing both guys and girl need to ask someone out. (i.e. in the hallway pass her without saying a word if she looks at you to talk then act as though you didnt see her...) That something everyone needs to ask someone out or just ask to go on a date as friends then pay for everything unless your the girl then if he doesnt pay then he's obviously not interested!!!! hope it helps somewhat

Hollywood
April 28th, 2010, 02:11 AM
the friend zone isnt a good place to be haha..

There's nothing wrong with being just friends. I have a lot of girls on here that I'm friends with, and a few in real life too, but I have no interest in going out with them. Girls aren't just here for sensual relationships you know.