HELP.. Recieving Oral

[Ballsofury]

Ive been dating this girl for about a month and a half and we really like eachother. I am a Soph, shes a Freshman. She is extremely shy and nice, but she claims to have done everything but sex with her ex boyfriend who is a Senior now.

If we hang out tommorow should I try and go for oral? I dont think she would get mad over it if she doesn't want to, but I just dont know.

Any suggestions?

[Kaius]

To be honest, the best thing to do is to talk this over with her before you rush into anything. If you've been with her for just a month and a half chances could be shes not ready for that type of stuff yet. Talking is the best option, because that way you wouldn't risk making her upset or angry if she doesn't want to. Hope this helps

[Ballsofury]

To be honest, the best thing to do is to talk this over with her before you rush into anything. If you've been with her for just a month and a half chances could be shes not ready for that type of stuff yet. Talking is the best option, because that way you wouldn't risk making her upset or angry if she doesn't want to. Hope this helps

Well ya see, I asked her something along the lines of ."I dont want to make it seem like im taking advantage of you, because Im not you know that, but do you think we will go any farther."

she said whatever happens happens...

[alexpop]

i will 1st kiss her and then turn her onthats what i did to my gf

[Ballsofury]

lol thanks for that advice dude.

[crazycoller]

if you have only been going for a month and a half you may want to wait a bit longer because if you rush into it too soon she may think you are using her no matter what you say. I would casually bring up the topic in conversation a few times to see how she reacts.

[pontiacdriver]

Ive been dating this girl for about a month and a half and we really like eachother. I am a Soph, shes a Freshman. She is extremely shy and nice, but she claims to have done everything but sex with her ex boyfriend who is a Senior now.

If we hang out tommorow should I try and go for oral? I dont think she would get mad over it if she doesn't want to, but I just dont know.

Any suggestions?

Personally, I would wait until your girlfriend brings up anything sexual because if you do, then it just looks like you want sex and nothing more. Girls operate a lot differently than guys when it comes to sex, and when they bring it up it is a lot better for everyone as opposed to the guy bringing it up because they feel pressured. Chances are if she did a lot of stuff with her old boyfriend, then she will eventually do so with you once she feel comfortable. Just do not bring up the issue or force the point because even though she will be all right on the outside she might not be so on the inside as she might feel pressured.

My final point is that if she brought up her sexual experiences with her past boyfriend, then that is a signal to you that she wants to do such thing with you. If she did tell you that recently, then you can respond by saying that you would be all right doing things with her once she feels comfortable. From that point let her bring it up when she is in the mood.

[aerobooster]

Don't push her for it, it will come in time

[Kaius]

Don't bump old threads :locked: