past experiences

[mattvt94]

sorry if this is in the wrong spot but when i was younger my cousin and i would always jo together and that was fine but one day he wanted me to suck him off i would not do it but now to my question if you do stuff with guys to early like jackin off can that make u gay or bi

[kyler]

Hmm not sure, I jakd with a friend once like a month ago, no touchin or anything but it did seem to change my thoughts a little bit. Idk, alot of people say they have done that tho and say they are straight. Sorry guess thats not much of an answer.:confused:

[mattvt94]

It better than none

[Kaius]

Just because people choose to do that doesn't reflect on their sexuality. Most of it at our age could be just general curiosity unless you're sure in yourself that you are indeed Gay/Bi.

[ZackAttack]

ive read stuff on here and other sites from people that kinda go thru a pase, they mess with guys when they are younger and then once they start going out with girls, thats where it takes them. i spose in ealry teens, your hormones are raging tons and sex is just sex, not necessarily a lifechoice or whatever.

[Jacob1993]

I dont believe it makes u gay or Bi if you do that. You are just curious and are experimenting which most of us do during our teen years. Being gay or bi is much more then just sexually experimenting with someone else. Now if you become emotionally, physically and sexually attatched with someone of the same sex and it just isnt experimenting, then there is a good possibility that u are gay or Bi.

Yea 200th Post!!!! :D

[WilliamOrtego]

Yeah what everyone else said. But one question, why would you j/o with your cousin?

[Little Italian]

ive read stuff on here and other sites from people that kinda go thru a pase, they mess with guys when they are younger and then once they start going out with girls, thats where it takes them. i spose in ealry teens, your hormones are raging tons and sex is just sex, not necessarily a lifechoice or whatever.

I agree, like when I was YOUNG like 5-7 my cousin (a guy) and I started to do stuffand still today untill like a couple months ago we would always have anal sex, but then we just stopped because we realized it was like wrong, and nasty.

[alexpop]

a little bit i had a friend and we use touch our cocks but not all people like me he didnt made me gay or nothing like that

[mattvt94]

Thanks this really helpful

[sfmdraw]

Yeah, it definitely doesn't make you gay or bi. :) I personally have never experimented with a cousin (or anyone, for that matter :| ), so I can't really speak from experience. However, I do know that hormones are CRAZY when you're in puberty, and experimenting with someone you're comfortable with (who, in this case, is your cousin) isn't uncommon.

Hope this helped. :)

[Kitty Purry]

In my opinion, I think it dosent make you gay/bisexual.

[Trackstar29]

Noo. Thats taking it a little to far, j.o is fine but sucking idk about

[chilldude]

i don't think that makes you gay or bi....but if you are emotionally attracted to another male, then you might be....but j/o together is just having fun and male bonding.

[jaydawg729]

it was just a experimetal mood/moment

[luconfu]

No, you are just experimenting- everyone is curious

[Buddy]

no it only makes you curious

[CaliKid24]

just curious.

[Alex17]

I still to this day "experiment". But I'm sure in myself that I am in fact bi. And I'm lovin every minute of it.

[toobig]

it just means you are curious to find out about it

[aerobooster]

the hormones are raging and well sex is sex but when you get with a girl then everything changes really

[alex.c]

When I was young I used to fancy girls and all that but one time i was camping and all the guys were running around naked,showing off and comparing their junk and after that i kinda started to like guys. So maybe its just me but i think that if you do gay things when your young you might turn out gay

[TheTrueKing]

i think ikt can a little bit if u start at a young age

[sooocrazzzy]

dont think it makes you gay or bi

[Mikhael123]

Oh well, I've been masturbating with my cousing since we were like 8 or 9, everytime we met. (he lives like 60 miles away). So, when our families would visit each other, we were so happy to do it. We are 16 now, and we still like doing it :D. We masturbate each other, some times even blow jobs. It really don't make you gay. I got a girl, and I really love her, but I like having fun from time to time ^_^

[lil emo boy]

w.t.f iz wrong with ur cuzin. u cant do sexual stuff with family. u can look, but u cant touch............ and to ur Q. da answer is yes. stuff like dat can turn u gay/bi. it turn'd mee bi

[ImCoolBeans]

it can influence but being gay is an emotional thing

[Brandon16]

sorry if this is in the wrong spot but when i was younger my cousin and i would always jo together and that was fine but one day he wanted me to suck him off i would not do it but now to my question if you do stuff with guys to early like jackin off can that make u gay or bi

Me and mu brother would watch porn and Jack it like all the time

[Dog Desab]

emotional connection otherwise your just curious or trying to do something close to sex which is what we all want essentially, am i right?

[DanielBoy]

No, it will not "make" you gay. You are who you are, and experimenting is a teen's way of finding ones sexuality and sexual identity. If you are gay, bi or curious, it is not because you were experimenting with your cousin, but because it is who you are.

Not doing these things with your cousin will not change who you are.

Hope this helps.

[Billy15]

im not really sure if just playing around with another boy like j/o together could make you gay but i was molested by an adult when i was little and that went on for a pretty long time and i really do think that has something to do with my feelings about boys today. i have often wondered if our first sexually enjoyable experience doesn't have some influence on our sexual outcome but i dont know for sure.

[MacMilker]

No.. Not to make you feel bad but it I see this. ALL THE TIME. Its not your fault but if you see someone who says something like this pass on the message..

Doing something sexual, thinking something sexual, or talking about something sexual with the same sex WILL NOT ever change your sexuality. EVER.. You are, in my opinion born gay or born bi. In others you become this. But either way, you aren't bi or gay until you feel that you would marry a guy. Like spend the rest of your life with a guy. Until then, and guys are still yucky. You're straight! And doing sexual stuff with guys, and getting boners from whatever a guy does or looks like to you, won't change anything.

[fat cat]

no ur just curious

[Milo1234]

experimenting doesnt make you bi/gay its only normal to be curious. only if you begin to become attracted to him or have feelings for him you may be bi/gay. dont worry

[Judas]

That's called experimenting. It is fine, but doing it with your relative isn't the best thing. You need to know when to say no before things get complicated and even incestuous. And your sexuality does NOT depend on what you do. It is your own feelings. It may feel complicated to find your sexuality at the moment since your hormones control a lot of you, but it is your true feelings. Not what you do.

[neigh]

no i dot think so
i think u r like 99% of guys. u r like curious and you think about stuff like this more then u did a few years ago. going to rate u normal. u r safe. u r not going to the fun farm yet.
neigh