I am torn

[Palm kid]

I really like this girl, she has the most amazing personality, and its like we are matched to each other, she can complete my sentences, we can talk with out speaking, and shes so perfect, and one of the best things is that she's in the perfect position to date, not affecting any of my other friendships (you know how some significant others pose social problems) the issue is, im afraid to hurt her, she has been my best friend for nearly three years, and has stuck with me through it all, but i dont want to lose her if the relationship goes awry, and im also slightly bicurious, and i am afraid that im not completely sexually attracted to her, which could [obviously] ruin the relationship.

Summary- I love her personality, and would love to take our friendship to a relationship, but i dont want to sacrifice all of it, because im not exactly sexually attracted to her, and might not to be able to "get up" if you catch my drift.

[Hollywood]

Well, this is a common problem in young relationships. Asking out a friend could potentially ruin the friendship.

In my opinion, you should just ask her "Do you think that we would be a good couple?". You will never be able to bring yourself to do one or the other without asking her first. If she says yes, then I believe you two should go out. If she says maybe or no, then I wouldn't. Just move on, stay friends, and maybe in the future you two will come together.

You don't necissarily have to be sexually attracted to someone to go out with them. In fact, it's probably better if you aren't, it helps you keep your mind out of the gutter and on the true love.

Good luck.

[UnknownError]

I have the same problem. Im in love with one of my best friends who is a girl. I don't want to ask her out though because it would ruin our friendship. </3 :(

[Hollywood]

I have the same problem. Im in love with one of my best friends who is a girl. I don't want to ask her out though because it would ruin our friendship. </3 :(

Take my advice as well. Hopefully it works out for both of you.

[Arantor]

Well, Winnebago's got this one covered. That's about all yah can do in a situation such as this one.

[dannyeyes]

Dude this girl sounds amazing can you introduce me to her??
Lol jk jk :yeah:

Umm this is tricky
You really need to talk to her. she might be thinking the same thing.
ask her as a joke like say "Me and you should be hooking up" and kinda laugh but see how she responds.
You need to put it out there and see what she says

GOOD LUCK!

[UnknownError]

God sake. Told someone I was going to ask her out so the person I told goes and tells the whole school INCLUDING her so now I can't ask her out and I've spent the whole day lying! :@

[dannyeyes]

wait. why can't you ask her out just cuz she KNOWS your gonna ask her out??
I dont get that
for me I like it better if the person knows Im gonna ask them
it takes some pressure off
Stop making excuses and JUST DO IT!!! :)

[LoveMe_HateMe]

this has the potential of being shit advice but still :P

Like Winnebago said:
In my opinion, you should just ask her "Do you think that we would be a good couple?". You will never be able to bring yourself to do one or the other without asking her first. If she says yes, then I believe you two should go out. If she says maybe or no, then I wouldn't. Just move on, stay friends, and maybe in the future you two will come together.

i'd go with that and try and make it semi-serious and semi-joking so if she does say no then you can easily turn it into a joke and laugh it off saves it turning embarrasing :)

Good Luck and hope this does actually help you :) x

[UnknownError]

Said to her today "We would be good parents" and she went "Yeah we would." !! :D

[Hollywood]

Said to her today "We would be good parents" and she went "Yeah we would." !! :D

Eh. I wouldn't take that too seriously. I mean, I'm not trying to burst your bubble, but that could just be a joke, I've heard that from girls before that didn't like me. You're just going to have to ask her straight up if she thinks that you two should go out. That's the only way you will get an answer that you know isn't just a joke.

Good luck.