Gay or not gay

[Jack303]

Are you gay if your friend held your
pennis and if you held his

[MacMilker]

no, holding a penis doesnt change genetics [:

[nick]

Not necessarily, lots of guys play around a bit without being gay.

[Zero Beat]

Thats not gay, :) Its ok. Like nick said, just playing around, its fine.

[Mattasaur94]

This doesn't make you "gay". That would just be experimenting and having 'fun'.
What makes you gay, some people believe is something your born with. I personally am undecided. What I do believe, is thats it's a psychological thing. Your mind is incredibly strong, and when it makes a decision on what feelings it expresses towards people, it's incredibly hard to change.
You can't change your sexuality, in most cases, and there's no point.

But no, it's not gay if "your friend held your pennis and if you held his"
It is seen as gay by most people, but it's only if you have feelings stronger than friendship for him.

[Hollywood]

No, that is perfectly normal for guys your age.

Here's the main point: You are only gay if you want to be. If you don't want to be gay, or you don't feel as if you are gay, then you aren't. If you want to be gay, and you feel as if you could date someone of the same sex, then yes, you are gay. It's all wether or not you want to be.

[nick]

Here's the main point: You are only gay if you want to be. If you don't want to be gay, or you don't feel as if you are gay, then you aren't. If you want to be gay, and you feel as if you could date someone of the same sex, then yes, you are gay. It's all wether or not you want to be.
Oh no, not this again. Its not a choice. People arent choosing to be rejected by their families, shunned by their friends, maybe beaten up and bullied over it. Many gays would switch to being straight if they could choose, that's like saying you can have blue eyes if you want them. You are gay if you feel love for other people of your own sex, not if you just touch them.

[Strength]

you may not be technically gay but if you enjoy then you are gay.

[WilliamOrtego]

Enjoying a male's touch doesn't necessarily mean you're homosexual at all. Especially at your age, everyone experiments sexually at that age.

[Harley Quinn]

you may not be technically gay but if you enjoy then you are gay.

No.. it just means you're curious about the same sex.

It's perfectly normal for teenagers to have a crush on someone of the same sex or to notice how attractive someone of the same sex is, but that doesn't mean you're gay unless your desires for the same sex are stronger than your desires for the opposite sex. Even if you are gay, you don't have to label yourself. Emotional, physical and mental attraction are the key, do you only have all of them for the same sex? the opposite? or both?

Touching another boys penis doesn't mean you're gay, just experimentation.

[Kitty Purry]

No it dosent make you gay if you hold eachothers penis's. In many peoples eyes that will be seen as gay. You are only gay if you have feelings for guys, and only guys. Soooo that dosent make you gay.

[ZackAttack]

well, thats just experienting i suppose