Came out to school...now what?

[ati5870]

So like i came out to my friends at school, so now pretty much everyone knows that i am bi. I want to try dating a boy, but like no one else in my age/grade (15/9th) will come out of the closet. So I really want a bf but I can't find anyone that would be. So I guess my question is what should i do? Just wait? and has anyone else had this problem? Thx ppl :)

[Scarface]

I came out a little earlier than you unfortunately and it Is rather hard to find someone. If you really want to date someone now why don't you go to an after school activity or a club where there are people your age that are gay/bi and maybe you could find someone. Just don't rush things just let them happen. People will come out when they feel comfortable and as you get older I'm sure you will come across someone. Good luck man :cool:

[seanyboy16]

idk what to tell ya buddy

[ati5870]

I came out a little earlier than you unfortunately and it Is rather hard to find someone. If you really want to date someone now why don't you go to an after school activity or a club where there are people your age that are gay/bi and maybe you could find someone. Just don't rush things just let them happen. People will come out when they feel comfortable and as you get older I'm sure you will come across someone. Good luck man :cool:

Thanks for that, everyone around here is like ok with people not being straight, but everyones afraid to come out of the closet. I hate the people that harass other kids for that :/

idk what to tell ya buddy

Then why did you comment? lol just saying :)

[Scarface]

[QUOTE=ati5870;861017]Thanks for that, everyone around here is like ok with people not being straight, but everyones afraid to come out of the closet. I hate the people that harass other kids for that :/

Believe me I thought things could have been a lot worse. I'm glad they worked out for you just take your time finding someone you will have that feeling when you do. I have had my share of relationships, but just try different things sports, activity's anything that you know that might have a few attractive boys ;) and good luck dude everything will work out for you man.

[ati5870]

[QUOTE=ati5870;861017]Thanks for that, everyone around here is like ok with people not being straight, but everyones afraid to come out of the closet. I hate the people that harass other kids for that :/

Believe me I thought things could have been a lot worse. I'm glad they worked out for you just take your time finding someone you will have that feeling when you do. I have had my share of relationships, but just try different things sports, activity's anything that you know that might have a few attractive boys ;) and good luck dude everything will work out for you man.

Hm ya i know what you mean, my kinda boy isnt in sports but i get what your saying. I guess i'll just stick with girls for now until i find some boy that i like and is bi/gay lol. :D

[MacMilker]

I have the same prob. I'm 13 I came out this year and it was basically a mistake. Theres no point because no one at my school is bi.

Now since EVERYONE knows maybe someone will tell me that they are too and feel more comfortable to open up but, its not likely. :(

[Scarface]

[QUOTE=Bakatdarkcorner;861027]

Hm ya i know what you mean, my kinda boy isnt in sports but i get what your saying. I guess i'll just stick with girls for now until i find some boy that i like and is bi/gay lol. :D

See there you go. Until you know fir sure what you want stick to the girls lol. Not saying their exactly easy, but easier than finding out what guys are gay/bi. I for one have a very strong gaydar so I can kinda pin point who is :P

[MaliciousBunface]

Lawl, people who are secretly gay/bi will go to you, cause they know that you are so just be patient..and that other guy who posted "idk what to tell you" wanted a post so he can pm :/

[KillerKing]

Lawl, people who are secretly gay/bi will go to you, cause they know that you are so just be patient..and that other guy who posted "idk what to tell you" wanted a post so he can pm :/

Agreed, I think you just gotta be patient because chances are someones feeling the same but they're just sacred by all the judgement

[ati5870]

I have the same prob. I'm 13 I came out this year and it was basically a mistake. Theres no point because no one at my school is bi.

Now since EVERYONE knows maybe someone will tell me that they are too and feel more comfortable to open up but, its not likely. :(

Thats what i was hope would happen but it didnt lol.

[QUOTE=ati5870;861035]

See there you go. Until you know fir sure what you want stick to the girls lol. Not saying their exactly easy, but easier than finding out what guys are gay/bi. I for one have a very strong gaydar so I can kinda pin point who is :P

Well i can usually tell who is gay/bi but you can't really force someone out of the closet and if you try to make a move and theyre in the closet they are all like man wtff..... :D

Lawl, people who are secretly gay/bi will go to you, cause they know that you are so just be patient..and that other guy
who posted "idk what to tell you" wanted a post so he can pm :/

Lol ya that is what i was thinking to, i like how he is already banned, i hate people that join and make random posts just to pm.

[Wonder.]

Is there a gay straight alliance at your school? If so you can find some pter people that are gay but never go out with someone because they are the only other gay male. Wait to find someone you really love.

[humanesquire]

Lawl, people who are secretly gay/bi will go to you, cause they know that you are so just be patient..and that other guy who posted "idk what to tell you" wanted a post so he can pm :/

Omg, that's what is happening to me, ever since I came out in January, 6 people have come out to me! I'm honored, but it gets kinda ridiculous

[Nelson]

Same problem, i came out early this year, and like noone in my school is gay/bi.. Just give it time.

[thepieman]

Yeah I have a similar problem. One of my best mates is actually bi, but I'd never go out with him as I value our friendship too much. And apart from him, there is no one else who is openly gay or bi, so I stick to the girls. You just need to wait, eventually someone will come out.

[ati5870]

Omg, that's what is happening to me, ever since I came out in January, 6 people have come out to me! I'm honored, but it gets kinda ridiculous

I wish it would happen to me -_- but its not...

Same problem, i came out early this year, and like noone in my school is gay/bi.. Just give it time.

exactly how i feel

[sum1got2]

cheesy? just wait around, the right person _will_ appear.

[guacamole24]

Congrats on coming out... if only I was as brave. As far as looking for a boyfriend, you have to let the game come to you. Don't hit on straight guys lol... big mistake. You'll find something.

[Kinetic]

im not advertising or anything but try looking into guys that don't go to your school, i used myyearbook which is like a facebook booty call but it worked for me :P. me and my best friend came out at the same time so it was kinda easy for us xD