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Tankinx91
April 21st, 2010, 05:34 PM
Okay, so basically today my mom told my stepdad that im gay and he's okay with it, which is cool. But I'm a little pissed off and i yelled at my mom today and kept trying to tell her that its none of her buisness, and I'll tell people when I'm ready. She keeps telling me that in order for me to love myself and accept myself as gay that i need to see nobody gives a shit, and now I'm worried that she's going to tell my whole family and everybody and i really don't want her to. I told her not to, and she said she wouldn't but i don't trust her now, that really pissed me off. It should be my decision when i want to tell people that im gay right?

I'm not sure anymore, i know she wants the best for me but i want to be the one to tell people when IM READY, (which i wasn't) not her. I feel like i was wrong for yelling at her about it earlier though, it just really pissed me off.
cody2010
April 21st, 2010, 05:42 PM
i totally understand. i would be pissed if my mom outed me to someone. but i could never bring myself to yell at my mom. but i've never been in that situation either.

but it's deffinitely your job to tell people. not your mother.
The Batman
April 21st, 2010, 05:43 PM
That's how I came out, i told my sister and she told my mom, brother, and my dad. It's really annoying and messed up and you really do have all reason to be upset with her. Just next time talk to her calmly about it to let her know that you are serious about it and not just saying it because you're upset.
Peace God
April 21st, 2010, 06:35 PM
That's the main reason i havent told my mom yet. She thinks its ok to talk about my personal matters to everyone as long as its family.

Sucks when you cant trust your own mother to keep a secret.
Tankinx91
April 21st, 2010, 07:13 PM
That's the main reason i havent told my mom yet. She thinks its ok to talk about my personal matters to everyone as long as its family.

Sucks when you cant trust your own mother to keep a secret.

Yeah, and that was the only person i thought i could tell. My friends are all assholes.
HillBillyWilly
April 21st, 2010, 07:45 PM
Well you can tell them before your mom tells them, which may make it a bit less awkward